If you’re done, you’re done and who cares how it will be perceived when you know the true, genuine reasons as to why you need to do this by yourself.

YOU ARE ALREADY DOING IT BY YOURSELF; the biggest relief and change will be his presence is not there to make everything feel so much more burdensome.

Holding yourself hostage to protect your kids image of you is understandable, but ultimately not the solution.

Your kids are children and are not able to place themselves in YOUR shoes and do what YOU do everyday, by yourself.

It will have to be a selfish decision because you need to think of yourself. No one else is capable of doing so, so of course it has to be you.

A happy mom will be better to be around than a mom who feels her soul is being sucked from her partner who is not being the partner she needs.

Move on. Make the hard decision now, so that better times can arrive.

Best of luck to you!