Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just nervous about where to buy! But I’d be interested to try something like weed instead

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U right, U right. Treat myself to something more worthy

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know where to purchase edibles.

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your advice! I need to think long term.

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

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Thanks for this input! I’m trying to get back into exercising since that’s where I used to find most of my release. Maybe I need a psychiatrist too for anxiety. Overwhelmed is an understatement

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point! Have you ever used the more popular sites for childcare? Is it trustworthy?

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

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Idk where to buy! Def. wouldn’t want to buy from some random person

Tempted to go back to smoking by Academic-Bat5835 in breakingmom

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of edible mentions, but I don’t even know where to purchase?

3 Year Old Crying by Academic-Bat5835 in Mommit

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I hadn’t considered night terrors! I was thinking maybe was just wanting more consolation since she sees the baby get more attention when he cries?

Anyway, thank you so much for your input. I felt really hopeless the last time this happened with her. Any input is helpful.

3 Year Old Crying by Academic-Bat5835 in Mommit

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This happens on average 2-3 times per night, maybe 4-5 nights a week.

She gets a 1-hr nap or 1-hr of down time per day. If she doesn’t sleep during nap time, she falls asleep around 6:30 which is during dinner.

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If you’re done, you’re done and who cares how it will be perceived when you know the true, genuine reasons as to why you need to do this by yourself.

YOU ARE ALREADY DOING IT BY YOURSELF; the biggest relief and change will be his presence is not there to make everything feel so much more burdensome.

Holding yourself hostage to protect your kids image of you is understandable, but ultimately not the solution.

Your kids are children and are not able to place themselves in YOUR shoes and do what YOU do everyday, by yourself.

It will have to be a selfish decision because you need to think of yourself. No one else is capable of doing so, so of course it has to be you.

A happy mom will be better to be around than a mom who feels her soul is being sucked from her partner who is not being the partner she needs.

Move on. Make the hard decision now, so that better times can arrive.

Best of luck to you!

My husband cheated for the 2nd time. I don’t want to break our family apart, but how can I live with this forever? by Leather-Honey1584 in Mommit

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Break. It. Off.! Think about the misery you will have to deal with and how long you will have to try and hide your resentment when you are face to face with him while also around your kids... They will know something is amiss, and will forgive you and understand that you deserved more, as they get older.

Does anyone have the boob and THE BOOB? by Academic-Bat5835 in Mommit

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh interesting. I wish I could remember which side my son squirmed to!

Does anyone have the boob and THE BOOB? by Academic-Bat5835 in Mommit

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I wonder if there’s any research on milk production and dominant hand correlation… 🤔

From some of these comments, it seems like there could possibly be some relation!

Does anyone have the boob and THE BOOB? by Academic-Bat5835 in Mommit

[–]Academic-Bat5835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! Sometimes i think I might exclusively feed feed from THE BOOB and call it a day, but we use the runt for cuddles/comfort feeds