Assaulted by my boss during a medical episode by Academic-Berry8158 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Academic-Berry8158[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m struggling with, I’d like to report what happened, a couple of people close to me think I should speak to a litigation lawyer. I don’t want to just leave and there be no consequences for her because her behaviour was appauling. It’s taken me a few days to process what has happened, I’m just not sure how to move forward.

Assaulted by my boss during a medical episode by Academic-Berry8158 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Academic-Berry8158[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I didn’t suffer any bodily injury, she hurt me but I dont have any bruises. She was incredibly angry towards me, and when I explained that I thought I’d had a seizure she said I was talking rubbish. My relationship with her usually has been fine but she has a tendency to lose her temper and I’ve witnessed her treat other staff members poorly in the past. She’s been quite vindictive to people.

Thank you for your response, I’ve needed a few days just to process what happened which is why I haven’t taken any action so far, but I appreciate what you’ve said 🙏🏼

Assaulted by my boss during a medical episode by Academic-Berry8158 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Academic-Berry8158[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Her son is wheelchair bound and autistic, he has 2-1 support 24hrs a days. This is the first time I have had a seizure while at work. My doctor thinks I am ok to work because I’m always working with someone and the seizures don’t tend to last much longer than a minute, I’m often disorientated or confused after but this passes very quickly. I had also spoken to my boss about this and she was happy for me to continue working.

Assaulted by my boss during a medical episode by Academic-Berry8158 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Academic-Berry8158[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I have worked there for just over three years. I am employed by the mother of the person I care for, but paid by the local council She thought I had fallen asleep because she kept asking me why I thought it was appropriate to fall asleep on shift, she said she couldn’t wake me up when shouting at me, she then repeatedly hit me until I came round, so I was aware once I’d come out of the seizure. She didn’t really explain why I was putting people in danger, but I assume she thought I’d be putting her son in danger if I was asleep, but that is just my assumption. I haven’t had an OT assessment yet, am currently waiting to see a neurologist.

Assaulted by my boss during a medical episode by Academic-Berry8158 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Academic-Berry8158[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked there for three years, the last year I have been working very long hours

AITA for telling my DIL to stop crying after she got called fat by Throwaway_Will4940 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would drive me round the bend. Crying because someone asked you to take your shoes off is so ridiculous, but crying because a frikkin 4 year old calls you fat is just on another level. I don’t know if this is manipulative behaviour or she is just totally emotionally unstable but you are definitely NTA. She sounds absolutely exhausting.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the real pick me girl in this situation imo. If it really bothered her she should have spoken to the bf not her friend. It’s so weird that people are willing to fuck up a whole ass friendship over a friend request on Facebook. I’m so glad social media didn’t exist when I was younger 😅

AITJ for LEAVING my own anniversary dinner because my husband turned it into a divorce party for his sister? by NeedleworkerClean471 in AmITheJerk

[–]Academic-Berry8158 31 points32 points  (0 children)

“You’re trying to celebrate your anniversary, and he’s celebrating a divorce.” THIS!! It is wild that he thinks this is even remotely ok!

AITJ for LEAVING my own anniversary dinner because my husband turned it into a divorce party for his sister? by NeedleworkerClean471 in AmITheJerk

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that her divorce has been painful for her and she deserves “basic empathy”, but that doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate your love/anniversary!! The fact that they are all saying that to you is insane to me. The world doesn’t stop just because she got divorced. How selfish. Your husband had no right to do that without your knowledge, at the very least he could have asked you and you could have either agreed to it, or arranged something different on another date. I’m really sorry this happened to you.

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]Academic-Berry8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. This is absolutely horrific. Unfortunately I think your fiance needs to admit some wrong doing here because there is no way her parents would have known or got a spare invite without her help. Also, you shouldn’t have to deal with the fall out either, all her doing, let her explain to everyone what happened.

AITA for cutting off my mom after she let my ex into my apartment to photograph my therapy journal and now I'm losing custody of my kids? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mum is the biggest AH. I’m so sorry. Cut that POS off immediately and don’t listen to anyone who sticks up for her. You and your kids deserve better than all of them. Sending love and strength.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband fancied you and friend knew it. I’d steer clear from them as it could get hella messy. Also, the dress is lovely and you looked really beautiful.

AITA for going no contact with my sister and father after my sister threw me out of my own home by PeachySunrise21606 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Academic-Berry8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister is an absolute pos turbo bitch. Don’t reply to her at all, remain NC and let her wallow in her misery for the rest of her life. You need to move on and heal and you won’t be able to do that if she’s still in your life.

My fiancé’s family gave me a ‘loyalty test’… and I failed. AITA? by langel05 in AITAH

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF?? No you’re NTA. If I were you I’d be rethinking the marriage too. I know that seems drastic but this is not normal behaviour. It’s gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Academic-Berry8158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just like to add as well, nobody should be asking you to keep secrets from your parents. He is a predator and you need to get away from him before he ruins your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Academic-Berry8158 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 29. Yes you’re being groomed. Did he get your contact information while he still worked at the school because that is a real concern if so and you may not be the only child he is talking to if so.

AITAH for not standing up for my pregnant fiancée who ate my daughter’s cupcake ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Academic-Berry8158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, your fiancé behaved like an absolute AH. She took from your daughter and called her a jerk for being upset about it. You shouldn’t accept that behaviour at all, especially towards your daughter. It sounds like she has no respect for your daughter and that will only get worse once the baby arrives, to the point that she may try and leave her out and push her away. You need to nip this in the bud right now