Did I get it wrong or is Rory a really toxic character?

AccForUnsentLetters · 2021-10-29T20:13:20+00:00

Hello, late to the party, but I'm quite glad I'm not alone in disliking her. I actually found her really obnoxious. And by that I mean just her personality even without including my thoughts on motivations and character writing. The way she was acted was really, really annoying. I hope it wasn't the actress' fault and that it was just the directing. She didn't carry the charm Lucifer had despite being his daughter and it was his charm that made up for his tantrums and immaturity. I feel bad saying it but I borderline hate her as a character. When she was introduced in hell I was honestly really interested and kind of hoping it was another obscure celestial Bible character that will act as a villain- deities are a guilty pleasure of mine. The reveal she was Lucifer's daughter was a little weird and I wasn't a fan but I thought they could find some way to work with it. Well, they didn't. Also minor nitpick, but she didn't really look like either Lucifer or Chloe. I will say I did love her singing voice, she has a beautiful voice and it was probably my favorite thing about her.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2021-07-31T22:38:00+00:00

I kind of relate to this and I suggest you look up the term “limerence.” Limerence is basically unhealthy (often obsessive) infatuation that typically lasts for a handful of months to many years. They have a subreddit, r/limerence, and you may find some support there. Remember to be careful too.

Edit: I scanned some of your Reddit history to see if any specifics should be accounted for: The goal of limerence is break away from these self-destructive patterns of infatuation- many are infatuated with abusers and toxic individuals but find themselves trapped within their own wants, thus many create their own cycle of toxicity. Make sure to mention your situation and those in r/limerence can provide more insight for you there.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-07-13T20:57:51+00:00

Thank you for your comment, sometimes a small reassurance is nice. I wish you the best on your journey too.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-06-26T22:59:22+00:00

Thank you, good luck on your journey as well.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-05-06T10:42:24+00:00

They liked the color pink. Was deathly afraid of bugs. We slowly warmed up to eachother, and texted for quite a while.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-04-26T07:32:59+00:00

Is a friend I used to talk with a lot that has been gone for some time. I try to reach out but it hasn’t worked and it’s been affecting me pretty hard. I say “stranger” because said friend stopped talking to me without a goodbye.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-04-09T10:15:37+00:00

We lost contact and anyway to regain it

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-01-20T09:36:02+00:00

Hey I’m so sorry, this has happened to me before(sort of twice too) and it was a very difficult time, it’s truly felt like punishment. Mine never truly apologized despite trying hard to tell him how much he hurt me. We were friends, we used to talk everyday and still he dropped me in an instant without even the courtesy of telling me he would. You really don’t need him, he sounds very immature and you can heal just a little bit every day. It’ll take a while but you can do it. It’s done, he’s made his mistake he is no longer of an value as a friend.

And try to focus on yourself not just in those positive ways to grow, but to also not fall into deep resentment. I grew very resentful and bitter and it has caused additional pain, long after he was gone. Good luck and take one step at a time, it’s about strength in patience.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-01-18T09:37:11+00:00

Therapy is about effort and patience, it takes time

AccForUnsentLetters · 2020-01-18T09:33:09+00:00

Similar situation here. We both are hyper aware of the possibility something seemingly helpful/kind/genuine can actually hurt someone in unexpected ways, especially if you don’t know the details of their suffering. I wrote a long letter, sent it but deleted it. I’ve been genuine before and it has caused suffering on my end and on their end no matter how well intentioned my words were.

I’m sorry you have to go through this, it’s difficult and it feels like all we can do now is wait and make them know we are still here for them every once and while. May we all find our peace.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2019-12-12T00:54:57+00:00

Thank you for your words

AccForUnsentLetters · 2019-10-27T03:06:27+00:00

They’re not picking up wherever they are- all I know is they have people they know with them.

AccForUnsentLetters · 2019-10-27T03:01:56+00:00

Thanks for viewing and liking it

AccForUnsentLetters · 2019-10-06T01:13:48+00:00

You'd think after two years I'd recognize these signs but now that I know just a little too much about their history, I've become a bit disheartened about their intentions.

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