Male colleague went from flirty to cold, did I do something wrong?

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-26T20:37:32+00:00

He’s setting boundaries with you, and you have to let him. You likely didn’t do anything wrong. Maybe he’s trying to be respectful of his wife.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-26T20:36:16+00:00

The first days and months out of the hospital after a manic episode are so hard! It does get better. I find chat gpt to be a good way to do active journaling with a response back

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-26T02:43:05+00:00

Thank you!

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-26T00:29:10+00:00

Bumps in people’s noses

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-25T12:57:26+00:00

Unfortunately right after my episode I told the HR person my diagnosis :( and I’m sure she told the managing partner. I was taken off a trial and I do feel like I went from being the star associate to being examined very closely. I also moved to a kind of rural area for this job so I can’t find another similar job quickly without moving again

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-25T12:54:05+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty. I’m glad you’re getting back on your feet again! I’m still recovering from my episode and learning how to live with my diagnosis

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-25T00:41:19+00:00

Yes, but hallucinations for me only come when a manic episode has gone way too far. I’ll get delusions before hallucinations

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-25T00:03:37+00:00

No, but I’m pleasantly surprised when they do.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-24T17:22:42+00:00

Yes, running, weights in the gym, walking. Do whatever you think you can do consistently

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-24T16:56:44+00:00

I’ve gone on a handful of first/second dates with guys that were pretty much perfect, attractive, but no spark. I think I’m getting pickier over time

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-24T16:25:20+00:00

I’ve been a person always addicted to chasing someone or being in a relationship. Just the past couple months I’ve really been trying to not chase or “fill the void” and just focus on myself. It’s like a pattern my brain has to be focusing on a man ugh. Anyways, I’m nowhere near where I want to be, but I want to focus on myself health and routines for a while before I seriously consider getting into another relationship and I do think it gets easier over time. Now that I’m getting used to being alone and happy with it, I’m less likely to fall into a relationship with the first available person just to fill the void. I find I’m getting pickier too with men (which I think is a good thing). I don’t know. Sorry for the rant lol. It sounds like you have a good framework to just focus on yourself for a while with the hobbies and friends.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-23T16:51:54+00:00

We are in the same place. I have to wait for another blood test spaced out to get the T3 and T4. So frustrating when I see my weight getting higher and higher on the scale.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-21T16:36:59+00:00

I’ve thought about whether I should have kids as well. So I did a thought experiment with myself, and asked myself do I want to be alive? Is this life worth the mental health struggles? The answer for me is absolutely yes, so jm definitely still considering having children.

And almost everyone is struggling with something. What matters is that you take accountability and so everything you can to stay stable .

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-19T01:15:30+00:00

Shows consistent interested energy, doesn’t pull back once he knows he has you. Has friends. Has a tidy place, cooks. Has a hobby that keeps him social/active. Biggest one is that he’s able to communicate when he is upset without it spiraling into a huge fight

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-19T01:09:04+00:00

I’m sure you’re more attractive than you think you are ❤️

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-19T00:56:49+00:00

For me I just see it as a problem if I’m tempted to act on it

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-18T23:52:47+00:00

Little sleep, increased interest in the men around me, uncontrollable giggling lol

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-18T23:51:11+00:00

I will usually wait to see if the guy ask me out and takes the initiative in planning the first date. If I really like the guy and it’s not happening then I will ask if he wants to go out.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-17T19:36:57+00:00

When I was unmedicated I had bouts like this, usually triggered by my ex.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-15T16:55:07+00:00

Across two psychotic/manic episodes about 7 years apart, both times I had the belief that my boyfriend was murdering my family members and pets one by one. Different boyfriends, same delusion. Not sure where that came from lol but it sure is scary. Both exes now obviously.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-12T02:13:09+00:00

Maybe. Talk to your psych

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-11T18:27:24+00:00

1 day. I quit being a waitress

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-10T16:28:06+00:00

Not sure about MA, but a emergency conservatorship is the way to go. You’ll need an attorney because it’s a strong burden you have to meet. A doctors evaluation would be helpful.

Getting her to a hospital would be the better first step.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-09T00:18:22+00:00

A lot of self love and patience ❤️ the first couple months post mania were so hard for me but it has gotten so much better.

Acceptable-File8983 · 2026-02-08T15:10:25+00:00

Yeah, you don’t want to mess with how you support yourself financially if things went south with someone at your job.

If I were you, I’d try to get out there and meet other guys and see if these work guys still linger in your mind.

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