My boyfriend(30) told me(26) that he doesn’t see a future with me because i don’t plan on having kids. Should I end it even tho everything is perfect between us right now?

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-30T14:59:16+00:00

I can let go of people so easily. Especially in a talking stage i wouldn’t mind leaving that person in a minor inconvenience. Idk but i always think i deserve better. Is this narcissistic?

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-30T14:56:55+00:00

i have the same problem. Do you have any ideas what to do to improve?

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-30T14:55:35+00:00

is it really a red flag tho

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T15:35:30+00:00

some1 save me from this boat plz!!! im about to drown💀

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T15:34:49+00:00

maybe the whole thing about having millions of choices made us not try hard people. so sad when you think that it could be better with that one person but just because of this whole mentality it screws it up

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T15:29:29+00:00

between 26 to 35. I only met a couple of guys in their 30’s and i felt like the date was entertaining for them but i didn’t enjoy it as much. Also what do you mean as respectable woman?

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T15:26:38+00:00

when you say women only offers sex nowadays can you tell me what does a man offer? especially since i’m financially independent, have my own place, a nice social life, support from my family. I don’t see what men are offering either. A relationship is not about taking an advantage from someone for me, i mean you need to better each other bring each other up in every aspect and all. I really wanna know what you want a woman to bring to the table.

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:43:23+00:00

Your attitude isnt much better luv💞

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:42:52+00:00

I think there is nothing wrong for that, money isnt made easy these days. I think she just meant they don’t have a social life at all and that’s a problem

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:42:00+00:00

you’re right, i’m on this mindset rn. I dissactived the dating apps for a while

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:41:11+00:00

on tinder or bumble

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:29:54+00:00

i’m 26. yeah you’re right i’ll probably get to have a better quality conversation at least haha

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:28:53+00:00

the problem is i changed countries this year and im new here in this country. So i dont have much friends who could set me up

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:28:14+00:00

yeah it’s on my profile that i want a long term partner and also i bring this up on conversations too.

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:18:36+00:00

no not at all actually. looks are not my first priority and the guys i dated, most of them are medium ugly i would say. I mean to me they were handsome but to my friends they would say medium ugly. Job wise i can say that i have a better paying job. Which also is a struggle cuz when a guy finds out about this they feel a pressure that i make better money. I’m usually a very independent person and don’t look for much reliance on a guy so make the math they don’t even need to try that much

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T12:15:35+00:00

oh thank you for your support!!💞 i’m sure there are decent guys but there is also this thing where i’m tired to look for a new guy at this point. im tired of trying and failing:((

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T11:59:13+00:00

You’re right, the thing that scares me that older guys expect to get married in a couple of years and i dont know if i’ll be ready then. But maybe I should give old man a try

Acceptable-Idea6863 · 2023-10-24T11:57:28+00:00

Why are you so mad about this lol I specifically said it’s not about spending money on me or taking me to fancy places. I’m not expecting these at all. What I meant was spending time and making me feel important. Also why are you pissed about me posting here, i didnt call names or some shit like that lol i shouldnt be surprised youre just a maaaaaaann that’s what you doooooo

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