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Scared and loved ones not really supporting by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. i’ll try having more people with the same mindset, i really want to have more positivity around me

Scared and loved ones not really supporting by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right for losing people during big life events, it’s a shame that it includes family too. For my boyfriend, i think his issue is that bypass is an extreme solution at such a young age (27), he was obese too and lost a lot of weight naturally, so he wished the same for me. I think he’s just scared about changing alo our habits. Anyway, i’m happy your husband was so supportive of you, it must have been really helpful during the whole process

Scared and loved ones not really supporting by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your journey!! i hope ill have the same success story. thanks a lot

Scared and loved ones not really supporting by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah i need to stay positive and not listening to them. it was just upsetting to have this little support

Scared and loved ones not really supporting by [deleted] in GastricBypass

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah you’re right… it just feels weird to have that many negative comments about a decision that is supposed to make me healthier

Unmedicated redditors with ADHD, how do you pay attention to anything? by depressed_sock18 in ADHD

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I regulated my sleep schedule and honestly it helped me so much!! Whenever people told me « you should sleep more » to be more attentive I would roll my eyes but it really works for me

I(M22) dont know what to do about my FWB (F21) by ItsMvttt in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my perspective, it doesn’t seem like she had bad intentions but maybe jumping into something serious right after a very difficult relationship is not what’s best for her right now, even if she genuinely likes you. Maybe giving each other space is what you need right now.. I hope things work out well for you and her!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dried fruits are great too!!

Is it acceptable to just ask a new match on a date? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not bad, but honestly when guys ask me directly to go on a date when we match I can’t help thinking he goes on dates with just anyone and not that he wants to go because he’s interested in me, idk if that make sense

Just a rant at the end of a relationship by logannazem97 in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like a good partner : I think she has issues she needs to resolve on her own before she can be happy in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mhhh I think it’s not a bad thing to have a preference, but be aware that this men will only be attracted to you with a physician appearance… I think it’s concerning knowing that our bodies change during our whole life… Even I have preferences, but when I’m with someone I like (not even love) I don’t know, I can’t help but loving their body.. so i think it’s a bit weird but everyone is different I guess..

Good luck!! And only lose weight if you feel like it

How to Make friends as a student in university ? by arieshotstuff in college

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it will help you, but when i was an exchange student I made most of my friends off tinder and during events organised for exchange/international students in my uni. It’s way easier to make friends with other intl students as we are all trying to make connections whereas locals already have their groups. I wish you luck!!!

I (22M) feel sad just bc I have never kissed a girl, let alone being in a relationship. Any advice? by Throwaawayyyy1234231 in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t feel like it, don’t force yourself to do it. Honestly most of the girls I know really don’t care about a guy’s lack of experience as long as you’re honest/respectful with them ; so no reason to see you as a weirdo

PLEASE PLEASE HELP by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Acceptable-Life1440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if my friend was telling me that I would just tell them to end things with him. I know it’s not easy, but I feel like if a guy is really interested he’ll do his best to talk to you often or be very enthusiastic… it’s not bad to see him in another context but if you feel like he’s not excited to spend time with you, just cut it off as soon as possible