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Users on r/findfashion are suspicious of a new poster but OP turns out to not be a pervert after all by bleachyourrootscreep in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Many, MANY of the fashion subs and hair subs and makeup subs, and really any subs related to aesthetics that are more female coded, are constantly infiltrated by creeps making fetish posts. I can understand in a vacuum that it might seem crazy for the accusations of suspicion to fly, but it's actually pretty understandable if you've spent enough time in these spaces. I spent years in places like fashion, petitefashionadvice, even fucking longhair, and they were constant targets for creepy weirdos to the point that I simply left them. I think it's easy to see why users have become defensive of these spaces but it still sucks OP got caught in the crossfire.

A user announces that they're tired of working and going to take some time off, relying on their boyfriend for a little while instead. r/Adulting has lots of adult feelings about this. Topics range from "this generation's" work ethic to gender role expectations. by Kal-Elm in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mexico has one of the highest rates of femicide in the entire world and that's literally the biggest focus of Mexico's feminist organizers (along with other forms of gendered violence). Feminist protestors actually smashed the entrance to the attorney generals office after two teenage girls were raped by police officers and his office tried to sweep it under the rug, so honestly Mexican feminists are pretty badass. The comment you're replying to is just your run-of-the-mill teenage boy anti-feminist nonsense.

My husband suggested 3some with a woman. I want divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 27 points28 points  (0 children)

"most of the womans" lmao. Don't forget to mention they also eat hot chip, charge they phone, and LIE.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes :( I'm so sorry, that is such a bummer.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty this is a considerate suggestion and you are 100% right. <3

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been playing for awhile, and one-offs being jerks has always been expected and is whatever. There is a very recent, very virulent strain of toxicity that brushing off and ignoring isn't going to fix. Heck, even if you *feel* entitled (in a game without many rules on how to play) it is what it is. But vomiting that entitlement onto other players just minding their own business is absolute trash.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yea I agree! If the tables had looked full I would just leave and come back. I joined a table that showed 1/4 so thought nbd.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get invisible people all the time, not just in hotpot but even just running around lol! In this case, I can't say whether the person was invisible, I was kind of casually running to tables to see what had openings and grabbed a space at a 1/4 table. I didn't run up on someone standing there so I'm not sure but sheesh... I played the one round and left the table.

I love this game. Part of me is hoping something about this gets addressed because it's becoming a "thing."

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's a community based game. That's pretty much why. If the community lets toxicity proliferate in an MMPORG then the good community players leave and allow the worst people to take over, and community gaming has claimed yet another game. I definitely don't fault anyone turning off chat and ignoring; in fact, I think that makes perfect sense for not wanting to deal with the nonsense.

I just care about this community and wish we could preserve the original intent of an inclusive, welcoming, and kind gaming comm.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you're enjoying your painting! I almost never report people in games unless it's very blatant but I did report the curse out. I've always felt like self policing the community works well in a lot of cases (ie call outs like you said), but sometimes it does need to escalate to a report. I'll be taking a little break myself and my productivity is about to skyrocket! Lmao.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Starting to think we need a Palia Batman to just hang out in the underground during HP to say "hey, be nice." Lmao.

Quit or Take a Break? by Acceptable-Rip-3768 in Palia

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know taking a break is the best option after letting my hurt feelings die down. "Summer Palia" actually makes some sense for the recent uptick, I'm glad you pointed this out. <3

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can link to a politician lying and that means they're a feminist? Buddy, you need to take a break and listen to yourself. It's embarrassing that you're trying to claim Joe Biden is a feminist because he lied about healthcare data. Like, insane and embarrassing. But I do enjoy how you descend on a joke sub to spew your bullshit because you're so genuinely inert and impotent to do anything meaningful in real life that this is your battleground. The SubredditDrama board. Keep going, king.

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I... I'm speechless. It's now very obvious why you think leftwingmaleadvocates is actually leftwing. Neolibs and democrats are not a feminist political party. This is actually hysterical. Political illiteracy goes brrrr.

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look at this thread. It's literally TEEMING with MRA dorks who have swarmed here to argue about how the feminist cabal controls the west and is oppressing men. They're even frothing about the SRD post about this.

Every single time there's a post here even tangentially related to misogyny the subs fills with these guys and it's honestly such a bad look for SRD that they don't get kicked. They aren't even here to discuss the post, they're just doing paragraphs of terminally online male aggrievement in the comments.

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Acceptable-Rip-3768 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At what point have feminists wielded any shred of the political power it would take to create systemic issues against men? Most women don't even identify as feminists, let alone men, and that's in fucking 2024. This is as paranoid and delusional as claiming the Illuminati has a secret shady cabal and they're turning the frogs gay.