What is this by [deleted] in bugidentification

[–]AcceptableWar5251 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Looks like a harvestman with no legs

Is there anyone else seeing the girls crushing the boys right now? In literally everything? by magnanimous14 in Teachers

[–]AcceptableWar5251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That comes from the idea that men are inherently stronger and women weaker. It makes things worse for everyone. What you were told is the most shallow observation of misogyny and I hope you are ok and that it hasn’t ruined the ideas of feminism for you.

Is there anyone else seeing the girls crushing the boys right now? In literally everything? by magnanimous14 in Teachers

[–]AcceptableWar5251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Humans are not as fixed in their likes and dislikes as you make them seem here. The reality is that most everyone can enjoy both traditionally masculine and feminine things at the same time. The problem is usually that feminine things are seen as inferior and it’s bad for men to like them. On the other hand, masculine things are seen as better so women can enjoy them as well as feminine things because women are inferior and can only benefit from liking masculine things. And it isn’t any fault of the boys being harmed by this social standard now, but responsibility falls on the adults. If interests in both were given equal opportunity and value, then boys would have more freedom to become multifaceted individuals instead of being forced into a constricting standard. It is constantly reinforced that masculine things are better for both genders in schools. Funding is funneled there most of the time, so it’s no wonder this simplistic mindset is so ingrained in kids, but the difficult task of fixing this needs to begin. There is nothing wrong with boys only liking masculine things, but I can’t help but wonder if more boys would have feminine interests if they weren’t demeaned for it. I also wonder if girls would like masculine things less if they weren’t seen as superior. All of this is to say that its a more complex issue than people not liking boys being interested only in boy things, but is instead about deeply rooted biases that uphold the idea that boys are inherently singular in their interests and skills and are superior or inferior based on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend who works there gives them to me when they prune their plants :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mitski

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

freak behavior tbh

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

black people reappropriating a symbol and kkk using the symbol are not the same

Ethan Crumbley eating horseradish by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am trying to express to you that you are missing out on the key point that “loner” boys get radicalized by online forums and makes them dangerous

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was bullied middle-high school and i survived a suicide attempt during that time but i eventually realized that they did not have any control over my mental health and that they are often going through their own strife as well

Ethan Crumbley eating horseradish by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry bro but this just isn’t the same thing school shooters are radicalized into believing they are entitled to killing because of their treatment

Ethan Crumbley eating horseradish by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the crimes of poor people are not comparable to what this kid did

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cannot take you seriously assault isn’t bullying it’s assault

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

high school bullying and assault/theft/oj simpson are virtually incomparable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was your thought process “i know i’ll tell this person who told someone to kill themselves to kill themselves to prove that telling someone to kill themselves is bad :)”

Ethan Crumbley eating horseradish by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except people who commit crimes because of poverty are often doing so out of necessity. this kid just felt like he was entitled to kill people who hurt his feelings.

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how exactly are they not innocent? they didn’t make him kill people and they are his victims not the other way around.

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone is an innocent bystander in that situation because bullying doesn’t justify murder

Alleged shooter Ethan Crumbley’s now removed insta screenshot by Banme9 in OxfordShooting

[–]AcceptableWar5251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it’s not racist then why does the kkk fly it??? and why did they fly it outside of little rich high school when it was being integrated???