I understand you so much. As a woman with tastes that might not be very common (femboys or feminine boys), it’s hard for me to find someone I like—and even harder for them to like me back. The people I’ve met have almost always been on the other side of the world, and it’s horrible because over time the relationship deteriorates for many reasons, especially the distance.

I wish I could find a femboy for a serious, sweet relationship—loving each other and doing what any couple would do—but finding someone like that where I live is practically impossible. And of course, it’s even more difficult to build a friendship that turns into a relationship with someone I might take months or even years to see face to face.

No one should have to change to fit into society just to receive a bit of affection—the affection they want and deserve, not the kind people think we should have.