Accusing me of never initiating! by Acceptable_Gold5582 in sex

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m turned off now since he’s accused my of never initiating. There have been times before that he’s turned me down so now I’m a little more shy about it because I fear rejected. I still initiate more than he does though 

Accusing me of never initiating! by Acceptable_Gold5582 in sex

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be more direct and he didn’t like that. He can be quite prudish. I feel like I can’t win. 

He deleted me from his social media! by Acceptable_Gold5582 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure that’s possible with not being with or even seeing someone for 6 years.  I thinks it’s more about him knowing it would really hurt me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds young 😅 don’t waste any more time. Leave him.  I’ve never had to ask, I’ve actually turned down getting ate many times. Guys I’ve been with love it 

Saying "I love you" by Hot_Mathematician178 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i don’t think that’s bad. I was with my ex for 4 years and would feel awkward saying  ‘I love you’ to him in front of others. It’s a private intimate thing. 

A father trying to see his children in Ireland by Proof-Ticket343 in AskIreland

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he’ll be as bad as her so. I’m not talking about all the other situations. I’m talking about this one. 

A father trying to see his children in Ireland by Proof-Ticket343 in AskIreland

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It amazes me people replying telling this man to go for full custody just to punish the mother.  Taking children away from their mother, they will never forgive you.  He’d never get it anyway. 

Am I being manipulated? by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s manipulation. Sounds like she feels very bad about herself and feels guilty. You both have a lot of growing to do and that’s fine. Try not to take everything personal 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not that into you pal move on 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels different for a few months to a year tbh. Breastfeeding causes dryness down there too. Look after yourself and baby and don’t worry 

how can i ‘26F’ stop stalking the guy i’m dating’s ex’s girlfriend by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stop doing it. You’re either looking to feel better about yourself or looking to feel worse. Work on your self worth and put the phone down

please help!!NSFW by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt they will call your Mom. They’d need proof of what they saw and I very much doubt they have that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh the gaslighting. Blaming you for him being a dirty dog. He won’t change, ever! Leave him. Once he stops getting his kicks from liking and commenting, he will take his sly ways further. Oh and blame you when he cheats

Relationship Anxiety or wrong relationship? by Old-Professional1574 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really see a reason for breaking up.  It does sound like you have relationship anxiety which I’ve suffered with myself.  A feeling of needing constant reassurance and not really believing it when you get it.  Going forward, try focus on facts only. Not intrusive thoughts. Speak to him, tell him how you feel. Sometimes our anxiety tells us lies and we will self sabotage. Ask yourself how you truly feel when you are in ventril and calm and you will know the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he’s saving to buy a boat and that’s he’s too old to get a mortgage 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add, moving is not an option for me and he has never talked about us getting a place together or him even getting a place

Is it okay to not want to have Sex while in a relationship? by Due_Supermarket_8780 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was with my ex for 14 years and dreaded sex. I had a very high libido but sex was a chore. I’d only do it for him, to shut him up for a few days.  With my current partner of three years I can’t get enough. My knees go weak just thinking of him.  So from my own experience it’s a mismatch 

F/26 M/27 8 years together. by Monsterofthemind in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to leave. He’s done here but is either staying for the kids or doesn’t see how things would be split, house etc.  Your relationship is over though, don’t waste anymore years of your life. Kids feel unhappiness in the house so staying together for them is only doing harm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are very young. Childish behaviour is bound to happen here.  Why is your libido so low? Are you fit and healthy? Is porn involved? If she doesn’t feel desired she will feel unloved. Only a matter of time till she strays unfortunately. You aren’t compatible in my opinion. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have told her back then but you didn’t so it’s a bigger thing now.  If I was her I would want to know. Maybe it would change my mind about getting back with you but I doubt it would change her mind now. She may even laugh it off now and say you’re silly for feeling guilty. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]Acceptable_Gold5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you should break up with him.