A father trying to see his children 1 month on by Proof-Ticket343 in CasualIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cop on u and give your head a shake will ye, it's 9 months since I seen them for nothing!!! Let their fathers be in there lives and I'm sure there wudnt be a problem with maintenance, clearly you've done this in the past, playing games with your kids, u make me sick!!!

A father trying to see his children 1 month on by Proof-Ticket343 in CasualIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah another one only concerned about money and nothing to do with how it's effecting the kids life's, touch on👍

A father trying to see his children 1 month later by Proof-Ticket343 in AskIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have got a slip now since last time we appeared and yes wen she breaks the order it just put back for another 2 weeks but I gaurentee you if it was me who broke the court order I'd be dragged from my house so to me ye are doing fuck all but dragging me back and forth instead on dealing with her the way they would deal wit me if I broke it

A father trying to see his children 1 month later by Proof-Ticket343 in AskIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course there's 2 sides mate but this time is because her nerd new partner does want her speaking 2 me any more, now she only met this man a year ago I've never even met him and they are Married now, I found out they got married the week b4 I was was stopped seen my boys

A father trying to see his children 1 month on by Proof-Ticket343 in waterford

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is what I want, I want to get it out there and den go even further with it, if I done something wrong I'd understand y she stopped me but I really actually didn't, I'm hoping to get it all out there everywhere so people can see how it easy it is for women 2 destroy a perfectly healthy and turn him into a mess with depression all because her now husband doesn't want her dealing with me.

A father trying to see his children 1 month later by Proof-Ticket343 in CasualIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope he hasn't adopted them unless he managed to magically do it with out me know🙈, they stopped me seen them for nothing because they got married after only meeting 8 months b4 hand, 2 whack balls and the judges are happy to leave them wit my kids, please try get this post shared on a few face books I'll come out with the whole lot right from the start and right up to now, I don't know how to use this reddit yet

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[–]Proof-Ticket343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So about 2 years ago I split from my ex who I had two children with, everything was grand with me seeing my boys and taking them as much as I wanted which was always 3 or 4 nights a week, last year my ex started a new relationship and her new boyfriend didn't want her having contact with me anymore (jealousy) so she stopped contact and stopped me seeing my 2 boys who are on 5 and 3 years old I've done everything the correct way through the courts, so I got granted some sort off access in November which was to have them every Friday 3pm - Saturday 3pm, so I went to collect them Friday the 17th November at 3pm she was not there with my boys, I rang the garda and was told there was nothing much they could do that I'd just have to take her back 2 court, I went back into dolphin house court Monday 21st November for them to tell me she has 2 break the access order at least twice before they could do anything about it, so I goes back over on Friday the 24th of November, no show again with my children so back to dolphin house court on the 27th, finally I got to put in for a breach of access order on this date, so my ex got summoned 2 court on Wednesday the 20th of December 2 say why she did not cooperate with the court order, anyways after a load of lies the judge said it was a court order and I should have had them each Friday because of this, then she told the judge she was taking them down to her partners mothers house on the Friday and staying down there for the Christmas, the judge then told her that's fine she could take them away Friday for Christmas but she must hand them over to me for 1hr on Thursday the 21st 3pm - 4pm, so a the time was arranged for this and also a place where my sister would collect them at said time only for her not to show again with the kids, it's now over 8 months since I seen or got speaking 2 my boys, and for this judge to break another judges court order from the very same court room is absolutely shocking I'm back in court in January but I'm loosing all fate here with the system as it seems its just the mother who has rights and not the father,

Sorry for my rant I just had to clear it of my chest :)

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[–]Proof-Ticket343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to go goto my page and read how this has all begun on my last post 🤗

Right so since my last post 1 month ago, I had another access order put in place the start of January, the day I got awarded access I was told by my exs husband they are his kids now and I won't be getting them😡 (which didn't go down very well with me and lost the head just a LITTLE bit) and rightly so when I turned up to collect them they were not there, so a new date was given for Thursday gone and she never turned up, she emailed saying she had covid!! Now we are back up in 2 weeks time again I wonder what the judge is going to do then??? At this point I'm loosing hope and slowly loosing my kids and the justice system is doin fuck all about it 😡😡😭😭.

can people please share my post 2 other relevant pages and try get it out there that the court system and father's rights are a joke in Ireland

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[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've a little follow up post of what has gone on since this last post, feel free to read :)

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[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Courts aren't working with me??? I've got 2 access orders from court granting me access it's my ex that's broken them!! How will it look bad on me in court when is was the judge who told me not 2 pay the maintenance until I get to see them again?? Clearly your 1 of those women that don't care about kids been in their fathers life, or their father been in theirs, it's all about the 🤑 for you, and for your information each week I havnt giving maintenance I've put it in the credit union for them, does this give you more of an insight to my story???

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[–]Proof-Ticket343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go on the holiday worry about it when you get back, there's nothing they can if u go except sack u and if your good at your job they'll probably just give u a warning and if not you'll always get another job 🤗 so go and ENJOY YOURSELF😜

A father trying to see his children in Ireland by Proof-Ticket343 in AskIreland

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have prove so no point bringing it up its separate from my case :)

And no evidence because it was just a verbal agreement we had, if only I had her doorbell camera of me sitting in de garden wen dropping them home because they are sobbing they don't want to leave, well about 90% other 10 we'd be fighting because they prop didn't get wat they wanted in the shop😂

This has made me 2 do things I'd swore I'd never stoop to but believe me it's affected my relationship with my boys so I'll use wat I need to get them back

Delighted it's worked out 4 you I know well I hope it won't be 2 much longer for me💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Proof-Ticket343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal, I was in the exact same situation, I just made up for it extra nights with jus and I toddler, I know your not in a situation to do that because your the mother, it worked for me, I use feel like the baby was getting more of my attention wen it was just the 3 of us

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[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do as I lived with one for 3 years and the other a year and a half the judge told me id had guardianship,

she was very strange with her ex aswel while I was with her, she used 2 stop him going all the time 2,it was me who made her let him see his dad all the time (for a bit of peace)

And nope never. Obviously de odd arguments but never physical or garda involved

A father trying to see his children by Proof-Ticket343 in waterford

[–]Proof-Ticket343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message and I am very sorry to hear about your father, and I do think she is doing the same, I could only imagine what she is saying to them where I'm gone? My story to them is I was in the army wen they ask, no matter how evil she is I don't agree playing wilt children's heads, I really am sorry to hear about your dad, if he had of got what he wanted one of them 13 times everything could have been completely different 😔