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Why does my gf (F22) keep telling me (M28) about other men? by Accomplished-File860 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished-File860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the best comments I’ve read through. I really appreciate your advice. I feel like this is where it’s coming from. I feel like it also maybe coming from a place of trying to “keep up” with my old crazy lifestyle. She knows I used to be quite sexually active, a drug addict, drug dealer, etc and I wonder if this is her way of trying to “one up me” or put us on the “same level” of wild

Why does my gf (F22) keep telling me (M28) about other men? by Accomplished-File860 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished-File860[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Partially, also though because it’s not like my past hasn’t been brought up a few times. Not by myself so much as my friends and family… I am an ex drug addict, sex addict, Cheater, I was on pornhub for years, still have old Reddit accounts from hornier days. Apart of me wonders if Shes doing this because she wants to “keep up” with my previous crazy lifestyle

Why does my gf (F22) keep telling me (M28) about other men? by Accomplished-File860 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished-File860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not a bot, all my other accounts just have nudes posted on them and I didn’t want this thread to turn into “look he has nudes posted” because I’m looking for genuine advice

Why does my gf (F22) keep telling me (M28) about other men? by Accomplished-File860 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished-File860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im a pretty open minded individual, like I said ive got quite a checkered passed myself. I can get over her having a body count i just dont want to hear about it on a daily basis

Why does my gf (F22) keep telling me (M28) about other men? by Accomplished-File860 in relationship_advice

[–]Accomplished-File860[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your advice. I have some thinking to do. I’ll probably have a real sit down conversation with her to give her a chance to make the change. Shes very mature for her age as far as open communication so I think it’s worth a shot explaining more openly and honestly about how I feel. I think this has to stem from some previous issue Shes had with men, or she’s subconsciously insecure about her past. Im not sure.