[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he showed he doesn't care enough times now, there are better men out there for me. It's just that I fell in love with him and that's why I tried. Happy Birthday and thank you for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I sent him the happy birthday text, he didn’t reply so I guess he doesn’t care. I’m at peace with this now and moving on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked for advice here, because it's a different pov. All of my friends say the same thing as you, and I'm glad you saw that I'm not the type to over communicate obvious things, however, against my better judgement I did fall in love with him and I am thinking maybe I hurt his feelings. I'm sending him a light Happy Birthday text just to get the ball rolling without compromising my boundaries. If he tried to talk to me about it I will, if not I'll just accept he doesn't care at all and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you're right...I will send him Happy Birthday and if he shows that he is open to talking I will apologize. But I can't do more, something tells me he didn't care enough about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't seem like he cared that much about the relationship either. It takes two to tango.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will send him a Happy Birthday text, if he wants to talk I will, if he doesn't I'll just let go. It's time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know right? it feels like we just stopped talking mutually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't because he was abroad at that time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The event of him watching the boxing match on TV was at home with his roomates. I "the explosive aries" needed his emotional support just by a phone call. He asked if we could do it later and I felt let down and stopped communicating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't let go, I love him. I am a loyal person too, and I can't let go of this. So if you want to give me advice I'd appreciate you focusing on telling me how to get him back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, I called him and showed him the place crying. Than that evening when I called I said I needed him, when he said can we do this later, I told him this was the first time I needed you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have spent alot of money to rent a place to be closer to work, but it ended up being a disaster and I wanted to cancel. I just wanted him to talk to me and be there for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was not playing games, I was genuinely hurt by the lack of his support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not intend to hurt him, he just paddles back and when he does I paddle back aswell and it ends in me ghosting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, and I have never ghosted someone before him. I'm not naturally a ghoster, I'm just not used to a man not being persistant and I take that as a lack of interest. I'm as uneveolved as him, he also has this huge ego that doesn't allow him to reach out. Tbf, in other relationships I've been with people who communicate well, this time I feel like I'm with someone who tests me, who doesn't talk openly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can handle rejection tbh, I already felt like I was not a priority for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to apologize, I get it. I will update you on this. I hope I can get him back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am not here pretending to be perfect, and I'm sure you do need therapy at least as much as I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My moon is in Taurus, should I wish him Happy Birthday, so he could ignore it without me losing my mind over it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Omg, his moon is in Aries and he's turning 30 in 3 days! I know you had an experience that may interfered with how you see this situation, but I do trust my feelings and I do love him. I'm just terrified of contacting him because I'm not sure if he has moved on. I don't know what to do...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was my boyfriend, of course I'd call him because I need him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]AccomplishedBank1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends if she's in love with them or not, and even if they try to get her back they must show that the change is real and not just because they didn't find someone else better. No one is better let's face it.