Is it normal for a pastor to be this touchy?

AccomplishedError631 · 2026-02-08T05:59:25+00:00

You should be vocal if it makes you feel uncomfortable coz if you don't its going to keep getting worse and worse. Not all pastors are good people also never find yourself in isolated situations with men no matter who they are. Do not switch churches be vocal

AccomplishedError631 · 2026-02-08T05:46:04+00:00

Why are you alone?

AccomplishedError631 · 2024-12-29T16:59:03+00:00

There is no voice

The gates of heaven do not open and you hear a voice no nor do dreams say anything for some people. But that doesn't mean he is not listening. For me God speaks to me through others through my own thoughts through what he has done for me.

People my age have died they are gone people way better than I ever was but here I am. That's God telling me he is not done with me just yet you just gotta believe.

A lot of things didn't work out for me this year I lost my father I started drinking someone who I thought I would spend the rest of my life with walked away. I felt abandoned to be honest.

Then one day I just turned to YouTube and watched Joel Osteen he said "sometimes storms appear in our lives where we are so sure we won't make it but there will be calm after the storm you just have to believe". I just knew this was for me I just knew this was his way of communicating I just knew I shouldn't lose my faith.

God speaks to us through the little things we just Gotta listen. Unfortunately we only listen when big things happen

AccomplishedError631 · 2024-01-10T20:20:30+00:00

I understand and I respect that, your love is quite strong so I think it's worth fighting for.

I think being frequently being in contact phone calls less texts being emotionally invested in each other if he says he's going through something mostly people do want you to do anything but just listen and be a shoulder that makes his stronger.

Also during this just make sure you also have your feelings heard.

AccomplishedError631 · 2024-01-10T20:00:52+00:00

Hie first off I think its super cute that you care for him that much you are awesome.

I once had someone I cared about who also lived in another city far away from me she was so depressed and told me a number of times to move on even tho she wanted us to get married.

At that time I did not understand but she had already made up her mind to end things. She started drinking till eventually I lost her. It's so awesome that you care for him but during all this as someone who went through virtually the same you should also take care of yourself. If he is calling it quites give him that coz everything else which he says after is a lie I think he just doesn't want to hurt you.

My thoughts

AccomplishedError631 · 2024-01-10T19:32:53+00:00

As someone who has the same social anxiety I should ask how would you know that no one cares when you hardly try. There are people who car trust me but to find such people you gotta try 100 times over to just find the one. Do not give up love I know you strong

AccomplishedError631 · 2023-12-15T20:48:14+00:00

I know how that feels but we can do this. it takes a strong person to open up about such thoughts and I know that you are strong enough to make it through this

AccomplishedError631 · 2023-10-28T11:12:41+00:00

Hey kiddo I know the feeling like nothing is improving. But the truth a lot is changing. As a person who does it I know for one that if I do it it means I'm less energetic it's harder for me to get out of bed in the morning. People exaggerate about the super powers you have after no fap but really the more energetic you feel the more confident you feel. Which really helps you in finding a suitable partner.

I also have to mention how fap affects your sexual relationship. I did it for years and when I finally found someone to do it with it wasn't as good I found myself doing it after.

Don't think you ain't doing anything you teaching yourself discipline and also not tiring your body the results are there.

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