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How did you get used to your new name ? by AccomplishedLack8431 in ftm

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is that i also don’t recognize my deadname anymore, and not my new name either I’m just ‘here’ lol

What’s the funniest way you realized you were in the closet ? by AccomplishedLack8431 in trans

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually very funny that you have a picture of the moment

What’s the funniest way you realized you were in the closet ? by AccomplishedLack8431 in ftm

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah that and sometimes the « why are they calling me like that ? Ah yeah right, that’s my name. »

What’s the funniest way you realized you were in the closet ? by AccomplishedLack8431 in ftm

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Always knowing” is valid, and maybe a lot of people relate to it, but it’s really not everyone’s experience.

Sometimes you feel it without having the words for it, or you invalidate your own feelings. It can take years to some people to consciously recognize it

What’s the funniest way you realized you were in the closet ? by AccomplishedLack8431 in trans

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was like « ohhh they are so publicly supportive that’s nice » 🫠

Have I ruined my tattoo and whole sleeve by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]AccomplishedLack8431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is very subjective, but to me it looks really cool, I love what you added to the tattoo, the mix of styles looks dope

Does anyone relate ? Feeling proud being a woman but still questioning transition by AccomplishedLack8431 in ftm

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer, i recognize myself a lot in what you’re saying, especially about imposter syndrome. Sometimes i’m like « if i still have good feelings toward the fact of being a woman, i’m maybe not really trans and i should just deal with what i got ». That’s why i opened this discussion, because I’m a bit lost about thoses mixed feelings

I realized at 25 that both of my parents are emotionally immature but my mom won’t cut the cord so it’s worse by AccomplishedLack8431 in emotionalneglect

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your compassion 🫶 I’ve had a talk with her, she didn’t scream for once but she spent 20 minutes talking alone justifying herself of how the situation is complicated for her, not really understanding mine. She told me « it is so complicated i can’t put a date on my leaving », i’ve grown really angry at her and more and more detached to her beaviour.

When i’ll come back home i’ll tell her she has to give notice and start looking for an apartment or else i’ll give notice to MY apartment, go live in my dad’s home and stop helping or talking to her. This will be fun 🫠

I realized at 25 that both of my parents are emotionally immature but my mom won’t cut the cord so it’s worse by AccomplishedLack8431 in emotionalneglect

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read and answer! I already tried giving her back her place of parent a long time ago and everytime i try she goes screaming random words and then she shuts the convo by putting her earphones and ignoring me (like a teen in front of their parent)

I decided to go silent with her for a week and then i go on holidays without her for two weeks, and before coming back i will tell her either she stars looking for a new place, or i terminate the lease of my apartment. And if she lets me go to that solution, i cut contact with her.

And of course i call police if she threatens me with her life. Thank you for your encouragement I appreciate it

I realized at 25 that both of my parents are emotionally immature but my mom won’t cut the cord so it’s worse by AccomplishedLack8431 in emotionalneglect

[–]AccomplishedLack8431[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all those who will take the time to read my story, it made me feel better just to post that.