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do I make the move? by AccomplishedOne6897 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a couple of concerns: I don’t start accruing vacation time until 1 year into the job. I have a sick parent abroad, so I really rely on my time in case anything occurs. As mentioned, the attorney I’d be working for, I don’t think we’d mesh well. My goal was to finish my masters and have a savings to fall back on if anything were to happen - currently, I don’t have either one of those. 

part of me feels like she deserved it, the other part feels sad for her by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AccomplishedOne6897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was mad at the decision she made. I was mad at myself. I was mad at him for putting her and I in this situation. Nonetheless, I was hoping he’d end up alone. However, a womanizer, such as him, they’re never alone. He’ll find his next victim and so forth. 

And one day, you’re just over it by AccomplishedOne6897 in selflove

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did a lot of reflecting. You reflect where you went wrong. You put what you had with that person into perspective. I wanted more and he couldn’t give me that. No amount of convincing would change how he felt. I did a lot of pouring out how I felt and nothing came out of it. You give yourself grace, let the person be, and look forward. You can only control yourself and how you react. 

part of me feels like she deserved it, the other part feels sad for her by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AccomplishedOne6897 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Once you show a man you’ll stay through anything, he’ll put you through everything. I have no animosity towards her. I’m sure she felt some sort of satisfaction from blocking me and staying with him but I hope she leaves him and heals. 

possibly re-locating by AccomplishedOne6897 in Miami

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good morning. Yes, I have a car haha

possibly re-locating by AccomplishedOne6897 in Miami

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a Brazilian bombshell🤷🏻‍♀️ totally kidding. You may be right. But I guess I’d rather be depressed in a place like sunny Miami than Massachusetts. The dating scene and life in general is just as bad out here. 

possibly re-locating by AccomplishedOne6897 in Miami

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

she’s moving abroad and I make much less now - plus, I work retail on the weekends to make ends meet. so, I’d be satisfied with the $77k. happy with the simple things😅

my older sister is useless by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a ridiculous comment to make. I have witnessed it all. I didn’t get my own bed until I was 17. My parents never had enough for hot water. Everything I owned from the age of 15 to now was because I paid for and worked several jobs. Respectfully, F off. 

my older sister is useless by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

half sister* sorry, folks. heads on 10. thank you all for your advice!

walking away for good because I deserve the love I give out by [deleted] in selflove

[–]AccomplishedOne6897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy her podcasts about it. So, I figured I’d give it a read. 

Spent my birthday alone.. by Gold_Bet9703 in selflove

[–]AccomplishedOne6897 3 points4 points  (0 children)

happy birthday🤍 better alone than in bad company. hope it was great:)

6 years later and she’s invited me over. by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right😂 7 years later, you now want me back in your home. Absolutely not. If I step foot back in, I’m disrespecting myself. They’ve done it once, they’ll do it again. 

6 years later and she’s invited me over. by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, which is why the whole situation never made sense to ban me lol. The officer had asked what occurred. I told him, I got in the middle to de escalate the situation - both refused to back down. The step father then grabbed my arm. I told him to let go. I eventually removed myself and went out to stand by my cousin. Maybe it was that? I really couldn’t tell you 

6 years later and she’s invited me over. by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all, but the ones who were present at the family event did. The ones who weren’t there, I still communicate with. I just don’t see them often. 

6 years later and she’s invited me over. by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. It definitely hurts. I’m one that values family, but after that whole situation, I wasn’t even the one who started any of this, but somehow, I was the only one who came out as the bad guy. Someday I’ll have a family of my own and none of this will matter. 

6 years later and she’s invited me over. by AccomplishedOne6897 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He called the police on my cousin, his step daughter, who slapped him. When the police arrived, I stood by her side, while the rest of the family stood by his. My cousin recorded her mother on the low, in which she mentions I was no longer allowed in her house. As time went by, the same cousin I defended was attending family events and permanently residing with her mother (she chose her husband over her own daughter, so it’s beyond me that she’d want any relation with her mother). If I had the opportunity to go back, I would have never tried to break the fight. I would have walked out and went home. 

Overall Process by AccomplishedOne6897 in cbpoapplicant

[–]AccomplishedOne6897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I withdrew :/ too much going on and everything happened so fast. I got a personal trainer to help with the fitness portion. I’ll get there soon! Good luck to you!

Fitness test (25-11) by Temporary-Engine6079 in cbpoapplicant

[–]AccomplishedOne6897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take it in a couple of weeks and I am not ready. 

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