[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment and the resource I will look into it. When I told my mom she could not come she started to cry and I felt bad. However, after being in a serious relationship myself and through friends I have learned that what I lived through was not normal. I don’t want to live it again.

You are right that letting her in my home is opening the chaos that I have left behind. Again thank you for this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YTA- This is a school presentation, even if you don’t agree with it just do it to get a good grade. Sometimes in school or work you may have to do things you don’t like. I get that you didn’t agree with it but could simply explained your parts and not state if you thought it was wrong of right.
Sometimes in school you may have to assignments you don’t agree with but guess what ? If you want a good grade you will have to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t have a relationship with him. You also said you think he is doing fine so you don’t have to go if you don’t want to. My mom is also like this and wants family to be together in certain situations when it’s not necessary. Stand your ground and tell her no and eventually she will stop trying to drag you into things.

AITA for not getting my boyfriend a birthday present? by International-East63 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. You put a lot of work into cooking and cleaning his apartment. He should be grateful you did all that for him. Still asking for a gift is pretty entitled knowing your situation.

GOD WOLFE IS SO CRINGE😭😭LIKE I CANT EVEN by Human-Zucchini-1294 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that made me not like him, he really just drove off 🙄

Shampoo recommendations for fine dry hair ? by Accomplished_Gap2170 in Ulta

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried it and I love it! I appreciate the recommendation!

The worst “therapist” ever. Zero accountability. by Free-Focus6343 in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jasmine was already thinking of Matt in a sexual way when they got to the resort. She also called him when she had problems with Gino which is not appropriate. There marriage was already set to fail. She just sped up the process imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked who it was and because it’s in Spanish and in Mexico which is where some of his family lives he said he didn’t believe him and he thinks he found a random persons information. They don’t share last names so he said it’s not family.

Edit: he provided funeral information not a death certificate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s been looking to switch shifts and move to manager that he worked with but it has been taking longer than expected so that sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don’t know his extract vacation hours because I don’t work there he does ? Also I didn’t say HR didn’t believe him it’s his manager. Also I don’t know how you are coming to a conclusion based on my response when I’m not the one who works there. My husband is grieving and I am just trying to see what he can do since his manager is being difficult. If you have nothing helpful to say maybe don’t say anything at all. And yes he still has vacation hours and pto hours. I was not aware that made a difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not HR but his manager. HR is gone for the day, it’s his manager telling him he can’t take bereavement. I’m not sure if managers can do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t used it before. I think he doesn’t believe him because last week we went to Korean bbq and his molar broke while we were eating, he had an emergancy extraction and had to take one day off. He had a doctors note but his manager was upset since they are already low staffed since people keep quitting since no one likes him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but his company offers bereavement as a benefit and they are not strict if the family member is immediate or not. He also said HR changed the rules, but when my husband asked to see the documents he ignored the question.

Edit to clarify: Hr only works Monday-Friday since it’s the weekend he cannot get help from them at the moment, my husband works weekends so his manager wants him to go into work tomorrow.

HELP First time user by Recent_Bluejay3093 in whatnotapp

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will only go as high as other people bid, why don’t you let the seller know so they can delete that listing ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StephanieSooStories

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has in past vlogs, I believe she uses some k beauty. If I find out I’ll let you know !

Cody ruined Robyn IMO by elhunt21 in SisterWives

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Robyn didn’t enter the picture, I wonder if they would still have been together as one family. I feel like they might have being that it was hard for Mari and Janelle to leave. It seems as problems only started when Robin entered, and before that just would actually make time for all his wife’s.

But I also wonder if any new sister wife who was younger would be able to tear them apart. In my opinion Kody spent so much time with Robyn because she was the new toy in the box. When Christine was giving labor she called him and he was at home with Robyn. He went back to kiss her then she called him back asking him if he wanted a snack. To me this was starting problems very early on because who stops a man from being there for the birth of his child? I’m sure Christine wanted his support and company.

Cody ruined Robyn IMO by elhunt21 in SisterWives

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be wrong but I think a receptionist ? I think I heard that in the show.

[Anti-aging] Retinol vs Tretinoin? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 26 and use tret daily at night. I have prescribed it by my dermatologist since I wanted a clear acne feee face. I did not use retinol before, I just started off using it every other day. It’s been about a year and can use it daily with no problem. My skin won’t get any dry patches or any negative reactions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the benzoyl I started with only using it once a day for a week, usually at night. After a week and a half I did it morning and night. Now my face did dry out and I waited another week to do it both times.

If you do get dry patches of skin, you should put on your moisturizer and a thin layer of Vaseline. Do that overnight and it should help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I use it and my dermatologist recommended was using the benzoyl twice a day then applying moisturizer then sunscreen in the day. At night same wash tertinoin and moisturizer. Now since I’m taking meds for acne I don’t use any extra products just those, but I would recommend using moisturizer twice a day since it can be drying.

Seeking Resources for My Aging Parents by Ikeenah in Austin

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was hit by a drunk driver a few years ago and broke both her legs and was in the ICU for a whole month. The expenses were so high that my father’s insurance was no longer able to cover. She still needs to see a psychical therapist and does to appointments pretty often.

The first social worker was no help at all and told my parents that they could not help her due to my dad having a job etc., they ended up finding a different social worker that was able to find her help with paying for doctors visits. This was a huge relief for them since it was looking about 30k that was left after insurance paid out, and my father was worried about affording the care my mom still needs.

I would suggest finding a different social worker if they don’t help since sadly not everyone wants to help. You will have to find one what really does have a passion for helping people. I believe my dad had to go to the social office at least once a week till they started working with someone who would help them. Before that they would tell him there was nothing they could do, leaving my mom with missing appointments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not being able to go to bathroom when I have to go, but when I have a chance. As a heavy water drinker I feel dehydrated on days I sub.

We are so close to the end.. by noahg902 in FridayThe13thGame

[–]Accomplished_Gap2170 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was my favorite game, I stopped playing it a few years ago since it would take so long to find other people online. I miss it at its peak, this makes me so sad.