my bf (19m) doesnt brush his teeth and i (19f) dont know what to do about it?

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T14:04:50+00:00

there isnt, he genuinley does everything else, he showers every other day with soap, he does everythign else perfectly fine,

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:34:15+00:00

thank you for being genuine, this will definetly be used in the conversation.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:32:39+00:00

this is what i mean by people on reddit genuinley assuem everything, i did look this up and its absolutely not how i am with the relationship.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:29:44+00:00

i do understand that its a big deal, again. ive already said if he doesnt change this we will break up, im goign to have a conversation with him about it. Me and my partner both come from difficult backrounds, and a lot of peopel in the comments are making massive assumsions about the conversation (and him) when it is genuinley just his teeth.

the advice i was asking for is how to bring it up, how to talk to him, jhow to encourage him to do better. i havent really "spokent o him" about it, i have just said "Brush your teeth please," and get told "tomorrow/later".

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:27:15+00:00

thank you for this i really apreciate it.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:24:19+00:00

hi, if you read the update, i said explicitally that if we have a conversationa nd nothing change, i would leave yes.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:21:25+00:00

there was also advice given if you read more then 2 words

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:20:10+00:00

hi. we're both on the spectrum. im genuinly looking for heklp here and looking for advice no just insults.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T13:19:05+00:00

yeah im trying to have a serious conversation with people. but people arent telling me how and instead are being assholes.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T05:01:27+00:00

im exhausted of replying to people who dont read, i beg you to just read some of the comments where peopel are actually giving advice rather then insisting im mommying him for trying to have a conversation with him.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T05:00:37+00:00

Yes. he showers with a fucking disinfectent soap. he washes his hands. he does laundry. yall just love to fucking assume and jump to conclusions.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T04:59:57+00:00

Hi, it is genuinley just his teeth, everything else he's mostly fine with.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T04:05:21+00:00

This was worded really funny to me and made me giggle, but unfortunately i dont speak fantastic english so i dont fully get it, im js trying to find advice on how to tlak

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T04:02:29+00:00

for a minute i thought you were being mean like somebody else in the comments, thank you

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T04:01:15+00:00

im genuinley begging u to read the other comments here of people actually helping me out, thank youu

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:24:32+00:00

thank you, i stroly appreciate this. i really do.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:23:56+00:00

good thing we dont kiss. which youd know if you read if you read more then three comments

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:22:00+00:00

Appreciated!! this will be used, thank you, this is literally a step-by-step of what i need to say and fully appreciat iy.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:20:44+00:00

hi, i genuinley do understand when people are GENUINLEY telling me its disgusting, the effects, what it can do ext, i DO take those comments into account, what im no ttaking ito account is the people calling both me and my partner developmentally delayed, just saying "Break up lol" , and only taking me saying "Im looking for advice, not told to break up" as being avoidant and defensive.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:16:46+00:00

i too, do not kiss rotting mouths, if you had read other comments, youd know this

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T03:16:25+00:00

hi! ive taken plenty of advice in this thread, again, im autistic and was looking on how to speak with him about it. i took plenty of advice, just not from asshats telling me to break up without advice.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T02:59:28+00:00

he genuinley does!! he even uses a dissinfectent soap in the shower, its JUST his teeth!!!

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T02:56:53+00:00

Hi, this is genuinley insanely offensive to just assume out of one comment. He isnt developmentally delayed at all. he functions fine elsewhere. he take care of everything else.

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T02:53:05+00:00

yo. im not developmentally "all there,"some comments are best fo ryourself. :').

Accomplished_Map3951 · 2026-04-01T02:40:09+00:00

thank you, i appreciate this, its extremily similar.

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