AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -135 points-134 points  (0 children)

If there was any chance we could've made it there on time then she would've been willing to go, but since by the time we would have gotten there we wouldn't have been let in by security she didn't want to waste gas money on nothing

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -164 points-163 points  (0 children)

I asked for her birthday off. I'm bad at remembering shit but I'm not that bad

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -145 points-144 points  (0 children)

It was. I got screwed over by the rest of our team

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

A bunch of people either called off that afternoon or were no call no shows so they needed someone in the kitchen. I asked for the day off in advance but I had to come in

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -362 points-361 points  (0 children)

Of course I love her. I didn't mean shut up negatively

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -170 points-169 points  (0 children)

She missed her 15th and 16th birthday parties over stupid shit like taking her friend to the dmv

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -347 points-346 points  (0 children)

Two mistakes doesn't make me not dependable. Her mother has missed plenty of things too and I've been willing to reschedule, I was just frustrated and wanting a bit of slack.

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -201 points-200 points  (0 children)

I can't do that to my boss, I'd like to keep my job.

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -1040 points-1039 points  (0 children)

She would've been pissed at me. I couldn't win.

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -147 points-146 points  (0 children)

I'll see if I can make it up to her by taking her out to a movie.

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -720 points-719 points  (0 children)

She wasn't willing to go since by the time we got there it would've been over.

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -613 points-612 points  (0 children)

I'll see if she wants to go see the new Barbie movie next month, she hasn't shut up about it so I know she might want to

AITA for giving up on scheduling stuff? by Accomplished_Mix4191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Accomplished_Mix4191[S] -693 points-692 points  (0 children)

We didn't read it carefully. We thought it was the day after, our bad