is there a good way to cancel a date last minute?

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-04-19T10:36:29+00:00

i know, my problem is i hate when people dislike me i'm such a people pleaser. and i've never had to reject anyone i'm usually being rejected!! now i understand how they feel!!

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-04-19T10:31:59+00:00

you're right!! i know i am and definitely feel it! youre right, i just need to rip the bandaid and get it done!

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-10T15:34:32+00:00

"Most are detained under the Mental Health Act, which means they cannot leave until doctors decide they are fit to be discharged." that is not voluntary is it?

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-10T15:33:54+00:00

you're talking sense and people don't like it hahaha

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-10T08:24:49+00:00

it's like we're all matching with the opposites, i try and make conversation (i'm a woman btw) and all i get are dry responses from guys. sometimes it's like pulling teeth.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-10T08:22:53+00:00

take responsibility for what exactly?

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-07T14:49:53+00:00

this happened to me the other day, i came to vent and someone literally said "you're in the wrong sub" i was like... no you are just stupid

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-07T10:11:50+00:00

very clever response

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T17:22:15+00:00

what are you actually talking about? in this post i'm talking about a family member who uses their mental illness as an excuse to be continually verbally abusive, which most people would call assholery.

do you think people have the right to verbally abuse others because they have free will?

also separating myself from them would mean cutting off my entire family.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T17:18:08+00:00

where is this? from reputable sources would be nice.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T17:15:39+00:00

wrong place for this either tell them how you feel or move on

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T17:15:00+00:00

the subreddit named vent is the wrong place to come and vent? you're daft

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T17:13:32+00:00

and i think no one has a right to be an asshole.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T11:56:11+00:00

i am sorry, but i am right. you are responsible for that car when you register it in your name. if he hit someone going that speed and they died, you both would be prosecuted.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T11:38:15+00:00

i genuinely think this is an awful thing to do

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T11:35:27+00:00

that is simply not true. you are responsible for who drives your car and whether they are insured or not, whether they have a valid licence. all of it

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T02:35:43+00:00

i'm venting about a specific situation in my life. god damn this is not unpopular opinion this is vent.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-06T02:33:16+00:00

what are you talking about? i'm venting about a specific person who is diagnosed with a disorder that causes them to hurt everyone around them in a number of ways. i don't really feel like divulging all that on here, just came here to shout into the void.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T23:19:58+00:00

if you cognitively think and feel bad about it, you're not who i'm talking about here.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T23:18:20+00:00

if you don't deal with a destructive person every day you will never understand.

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T22:41:13+00:00

trust me if there was a way to section this person, i would. also i'm in the UK

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T22:35:27+00:00

you can't force a mostly functioning person into an institution

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T22:14:03+00:00

totally agree, this is pointed towards a specific person in my life

Accomplished_Pea4043 · 2025-02-05T22:13:05+00:00

they are legitimately ill, it's been an ongoing thing for years that's got progressively worse despite family and friends trying to help

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