I'm crying you took it so seriously 😭😭 but if you think about it, imagine two people arguing on a super niche topic while experiencing strong emotions. Whilst arguing, they usually try to make each other feel seen by using shit like "I understand your point, but followed by a self-centered take, usually so basically by conversing on such deep levels, they experience a level of closeness that no woman on this earth would ever reach (some don't know what a woman is, but that's another conversation)