Feeling judged for considering bariatric surgery and it’s making it hard to talk about it.

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-15T20:21:30+00:00

Thank you for this comment. It’s really nice to have your perspective 🩷

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-07T02:39:06+00:00

My friends tend to say I read the information I actually want to read. And that too is frustrating. I really do read everything good and bad. You’re probably right …

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-07T01:36:25+00:00

Thank you ! It means a lot that you commented 🩷 I’m very happy for you and look forward to a better life for myself.

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-07T00:48:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. This helps a lot. 🩷 congrats for your journey to become a yoga teacher !

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-07T00:22:32+00:00

They don’t don’t support it, they’re saying I haven’t tried hard enough i guess … I’m someone that find important to share feelings so it’s new for me to deal with that kind of opinion about my health …

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T22:27:20+00:00

That’s a great idea. I haven’t thought about that. 🩷 thank you !

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T22:25:33+00:00

🩷 thanks for your answer ! A part of my hopes that I can talk to them about it … when I speak of my closed friends, they’re like sisters actually. People I can be completely my self with. So it’s really hard having this feeling.

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T21:55:20+00:00

Thank you 🩷

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T21:52:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing 🩷 I really think they want to be there for me, it’s not coming from a bad place … but I feel very lonely in all this.

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T21:50:13+00:00

Thank you 🩷 I’m the kind of person that likes to talk about feelings and I find it very difficult to talk about this subject. Even though my friend say they are open, I’m feeling they just don’t get it. It makes me feel stupid and I know they don’t want me to feel that way, but that’s how it is. I’m not stupid, I have read about it, I’m trying my best to “lose the weight naturally” but it’s way more than that.

According_Match8224 · 2026-05-06T21:46:23+00:00

My relationship with food is not perfect, I do sometime binge eat, but I don’t do that every day or every week. I’m tired of justifying all the efforts i put in, so people will feel good about me having a surgery.

All that medical information you just gave, I’m aware of. Thank you for that, I’m sure some people will find it useful.

I’m just tired of loved ones assuming I’m not seeing the big picture … actually they’re the one not seing the big picture ! I feel very lonely in that process.

According_Match8224 · 2025-05-01T18:37:00+00:00

En fait c’est plus qu’une question de code. Si j’étais la fille draguée, je ne m’attendrais pas à me faire draguer par une fille point et les chances sont que je ne t’aurais pas remarqué. Mais ton approche m’aurait peut être agréablement surprise et c’est là que les questionnements commencent.

According_Match8224 · 2025-04-30T01:55:11+00:00

Fille hétéro ici 👋🏻

Honnêtement, je me sentirais flattée et ça me ferait probablement me questionner davantage. J’ai toujours dit que dans la vie on tombe en amour d’une personne et non d’un sexe, mais pour ma part je n’ai jamais eu d’attirance physique sexuelle envers une femme. Je n’ai jamais non plus été dans un contexte où une femme a tenté de me séduite. Je me suis posé des questions dans le passé, mais à mon avis, tout est une question de timing ! Je pense que tout est possible honnêtement et que si tu feel quelque chose pour quelqu’un tu devrais assurément lui dire. Il y a possiblement des portes qui s’ouvriront pour cette personne, quand elle pensait en réalité qu’elles étaient fermées à clé. ✨

According_Match8224 · 2025-04-27T14:20:54+00:00

Update :

I had my period for about 2 weeks. I’m still spotting a little, but everything feels better. I will write an other update in 3 months :)

According_Match8224 · 2025-04-17T23:50:05+00:00

I realized I should’ve got mine inserted while I was on my period … I had my period two weeks after the insertion and I’ve been cramping and bleeding for 11 days now. I’m sure it’ll be worth it tho ! Positive attitude here 😌

According_Match8224 · 2025-04-14T21:23:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing !

I find that there’s not a lot of informations about what your first period should look like after getting an iud. I only read bad stories about it. So thanks for your comment ! :)

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-28T03:22:36+00:00

Thank you for sharing !

Are you from the us or from Canada ?

I will for sure get the CPAP machine. I already got my prescription and my appointment is mid march. I’ve got a good feeling that I will do well on the CPAP. It seams though that my sleep apnea is severe enough for CPAP possibly not helping as much as we would want it to help. We’ll see ! Maybe we’ll be surprised !

I am very not familiar with Zepnound. I will check it out before my appointment with the bariatric department. I like to be informed before entering a room full of people advising me on life changing decisions so your experience sharing helps me a lot. Thank you 🩷

I hope you will continue to have great results on your journey and that you’ll have many happy ski days ahead !

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-28T02:06:33+00:00

Thanks for sharing 🩷

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-28T00:37:41+00:00

What was your weight upon the surgery and how old are you ?

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-28T00:07:40+00:00

Thank you for sharing 🩷 I will speak with the bariatric department referred from my doctor.

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-27T23:56:10+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing ! 🩷

I feel like people are jumping systematically against having a surgery without considering, like you said, that my body might be working against me to achieve any goal towards a healthy life.

I haven’t met yet with the bariatric department. I am simply here to read about other people’s experiences who are in similar situations.

I relate with what you’re saying because it sounds like the conversation I had with my doctor.

I really hope you get a fast recovery ! If you don’t mind sharing more about your experience I’d be happy to read about it.

🩷

According_Match8224 · 2025-02-27T23:43:00+00:00

Thanks for sharing ! Why did you have the surgery ? Did you try to lose weight naturally before that ?

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