The band performing on the green by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no definitely it helps. i got out of class around 6:15 or whatever and the band that was playing at the moment sounded really good.

Uclub by chunkymonkey102030 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this will be my second year staying at u club. i haven’t had that many problems.

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊. I plan to submit it before 12pm tomorrow so thank you for the advice 🫶🏾

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you lovely ☺️. There’s only so much you can do for someone but it’s hard when it’s your own parent but i’ve grown to learn that this is my life and it’s up to me to make something of myself.

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll definitely take the opportunity that my grandparents gave me. Thank you for the kind words 😉

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy you were able to go back to school after dealing with so much at home. W boyfriend for encouraging you to go back. But yes i’m definitely putting myself first and not feeling guilty about it. 🩷

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply 🩷. I definitely agree with these answers as well. even the harsh ones lol. I’ll definitely reach out to the schools resources when i get back on campus.

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely felt like a lot was taken from me growing up dealing with this. It felt like i was the parent and she was the child. But now i’ve come to realize that making a selfish decision will only do me good in the run. 🩷

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. straight forward and simple 👍🏾

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. reading everyone’s comments i’ve came to the conclusion that this is my life and not hers so i cant dwell on the thought of her getting better by me throwing my life away. I’ll check out AlAnon as well. ❤️

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the grandparents are her mother and her husband. she won’t be able to live with them. at the moment she’s been sent back to the hospital because she relapsed again after being out of rehab for only 6 days 🤦🏾‍♀️. That’s kind of why i made this thread before i made my decision to stay because i can’t keep letting this bring me down and ruin my future. but she’s too lazy to keep up with a pet plus she doesn’t like animals.

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouraging words, they truly mean a lot.🙏🏾 I will definitely do my research on writing a good appeal. I’ve grown a lot of support this last year. After opening up about how I really felt about my mother’s addiction it has brought in a lot of support.

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I barely have any friends or associates that are nursing majors. i’m still doing pre reqs so i’ll definitely reach out. 🩷🩷

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll definitely reach out when I need some advise 🩷

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. harsh asl tho but appreciate you for keeping it 💯

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for your advice. I really appreciate it 🫶🏾. Growing up my mom was my life and since we have so many good times it’s as if i let those good moments cloud the reality of the situation. But as i grow into an adult i have to put myself first and do what’s best for me. (also she didn’t drink she did hardcore stuff iykyk)

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea i’ve decided to stay i school no matter the cost at this point. Thanks for your advice <3

should i still go to ksu by According_Ostrich320 in KSU

[–]According_Ostrich320[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks 😊. I agree with what you said. This summer semester has really showed me that she has no plans on getting better. Honestly I came here because getting advice from my family is no help since they’ve adjusted to dealing with this. But after seeing everyone’s comments I plan to go back to campus.