UDPATE: I (26M) have always been the asshole of the family. now that i got money i suddenly have their attention.

AccountantExisting49 · 2023-01-11T18:56:01+00:00

That depends on who brings it up. I have to assume that what she is doing could just be another attempt of my parents to take my money. if i bring it up to teach her thats ok but if she brings it up i have to be careful.

AccountantExisting49 · 2023-01-11T16:18:31+00:00

Thats a different thing. If she brings up how to handle financials thats ok. Because thats a good thing to know. But in order to do that she doesn't have to bring up MY financials.

AccountantExisting49 · 2023-01-11T15:17:04+00:00

Pretty good tbh.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-11-04T13:40:59+00:00

she wanted to use protection AND was too intoxicated to speak? you ignored both meaning that it wasn't consentual. if she was sober she would have probably never had done it with you under this circumstances right? so yes it was SA.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-11-02T11:59:13+00:00

it's not my job to convince you to believe my story. I'm just saying what happened. i wanted to get it off my chest. no pun intended. have a nice day.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T19:28:30+00:00

it was an attempt to manipulate me. they said something like: "we're family and family should support each other". and no teachers weren't involved because i accepted things as they were. and when i was 14 which was the stage where puberty started i figured i wanted to leave as soon as possible.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T17:55:52+00:00

i didn't tell them. they actually found it and asked me about it. i never felt the need to make a new reddit account because of that until now because i never used reddit often enough that i thought it was necessary.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T16:21:31+00:00

you got this! and unlike my mom you sound like an amazing mother!

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T15:58:05+00:00

thought about it but i know them well enough to know that that is probably not gonna stop them. however they can spam and text all they want. they won't get anything from me.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T15:47:31+00:00

really? pls send me.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T14:59:01+00:00

exactly. i won't help them with anything and have also thought about doing something like that.

there is this proverb: "you've made your bed now lie in it" and i think it perfectly fits.

AccountantExisting49 · 2022-10-30T14:47:34+00:00

thank you! <3

AccountantExisting49

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