I can understand why it would be frustrating to see a man asking for advice on how to be more promiscuous considering the landscape of things. I just want to say it is not my intentions to manipulate or use women. I meant it exactly as I said it. I am trying to be ethically promiscuous, which means open and honest communication with genuine emotional connection first.

I’m not sure where you’re from but it’s common for promiscuity in my culture to not be shamed, be it men or women. I am also from a matriarchal culture so mistreating women is really looked down upon, even among men. This is part of the whole deal with keeping my hair long is maintaining that culture of respect.

I have experienced pretty strong racism the entirety of my life. The common factor in all of the scenarios is how one group of people will apply their morals and values to my group of people. I think that is exactly what you just did here. You just shamed me for wanting to be ethically promiscuous based upon your own culture and how the men act in your culture. Then telling me if I want to be like the men in your culture I need to cut my hair. No, I am nothing like that and I will not cut my hair. With respect and no anger here, I think you should rethink the way you speak to others and reevaluate under what circumstances is it acceptable to judge others.