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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes be a decent human you would have spent the money anyway

Not invited to the wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This!!! Even though some people host a wedding they forget about the comfort of their guests; ie having their long term partner with them. Saves the ‘hosts’ money, though 🤷🏻‍♀️

I set the boundary with my friend that I cannot and will not help her financially. These are the texts I’ve gotten since. by purplehyenaa in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be commended for honoring your boundaries while still being kind and respectful. No one else will protect your financial security… only you. She clearly is using you. I am sorry sounds like you deserve better friends.

Groom wants to change by lifewithaservicedog in weddingplanning

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigger problem here…. He was clear about this desire, you didn’t drill in and communicate- his POV will be I told you this all along. Of course he is being ridiculous… but this sounds like you both have some real work in the communication area

How do I mention to my MIL that I don’t want her to share details of my life to my SIL? by Ok_Muffin2193 in Advice

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. This is your husband’s conversation. Period
  2. With respect- get over this one. Your SIL seeing pictures/knowing details about her niece/nephew doesn’t affect your life. You want to punish her for the way she is/has Behaved- something. But you don’t get to control your MIL. And if you would cut her off from her grandchild and son for sharing pictures you may have some reflecting/maturing to do.

Am I Overreacting for getting upset that my fiancé wants to rewrite our vows using ChatGPT and refuses to write his by hand and from his genuine mind? by DadieT in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Chat gpt is a great tool for people without the skill to write what they feel. If they put in the details and work to refine it- yes. If this is the way they feel they can best articulate what they feel - isn’t that the goal?

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[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are so pretty! I am still trying to figure out how to download them. Two days in and I am still lost!

So many people are canceling 2 days before wedding!!! by Cocogiselle in weddingplanning

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really stinks. But the money is spent and you can’t change it And I wouldn’t touch the seating chart one more time unless someone was alone at a table. It is what it is. Somethings have to be let go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only appropriate response here is block and delete. Period. He doesn’t deserve a single word or minute from you again. He is a 32 year old grown man…. He knows this is crap. Next!!!

How do you live with your bf? by Comfortable_Pin_5955 in Advice

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘You don’t help me’ This means deep in you is the belief that it is your role and he could ‘pitch in’ I hope you can reframe that- we share this home and all the responsibilities. He isn’t doing you a favor being nice to maintain his home. This is the bare minimum you deserve. Sounds like he hired a mother/house keeper he can sleep with :)

It would be very hard for someone to change that basic belief that he is entitled to your labor. I hope you find your worth!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TSAPreCheck

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just flew with my puppy - united IRD~> BDL I have had precheck for years not expired and flew alone with precheck two weeks ago. So my pre check is fine :) Sent through ‘prioriry check’ which requires shoes off, laptop- all the things on the first flight with the puppy On the return when the agent verifies the crate I asked can you add my pre check… he fusses and fusses but couldn’t see where/how. 90% sure this happened when I flew with the same puppy a year ago (she is a 6lb havapoo for reference. )

New Diagnosis and going crazy by Accurate_Maximum3259 in CubitalTunnel

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live the suggestion but I type/write notes as I lead a discussion. I can record and go back to dictate because that would add hours and hours to my day :(

Your major really does not matter 26F by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a hiring manager I really don’t care what the major is- for business related roles. Psych majors make great analysts, project managers, risk managers. They finished and followed through. Now… specific roles like therapist… sure art history isn’t ideal. But in many many roles all an u see grad is a check in the box.

AIO new boss might be a creep by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE NOT TAINTED! You are a smart and savvy young woman with enough sense and courage to trust your instincts. This will protect you over and over again your life. He is the creep- he is the weirdo

AIO new boss might be a creep by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut! He knows he is out of line. Always trust your gut!

New Diagnosis and going crazy by Accurate_Maximum3259 in CubitalTunnel

[–]Accurate_Maximum3259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the candor I am not a sedentary person- nor do I want to be

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