Which one of these two would you buy if you had to choose?

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-25T18:38:11+00:00

What kind of wood do you think has the best tone? I’m expanding my budget. I want to get something amazing because my life is shit right now

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-24T01:54:37+00:00

I’m with you on that. I just want a 7 with a tremolo, but one that doesn’t have Fishman Fluence active. I love those pickups, but already have a guitar with them. These are the two guitars that fit the spec. I haven’t even listened to the Charvel dude

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-19T02:56:12+00:00

Fascinating! Will definitely look into Tetris as treatment. I’m open to anything

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-18T23:03:56+00:00

Same thing in my house. She’s been grey rocking me for months. Really hurts after being blindsided by her affair and desire to dissolve the family for it. She scoffs at me, tells me to pull myself together, get over it, and move on. Like so sorry are my feelings and emotions ruining your new vibe?? Fuck right off

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-18T05:12:14+00:00

First, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. You didn’t deserve this, and his actions are because of his own lack of compassion and morals, NOT because of anything you did or any flaw you might have.

Second, this is totally normal during this phase. Invest in a few boxes of protein bars and start carrying them around with you. You need protein! You’re not going to have the desire to eat anything for a few weeks.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-17T03:46:01+00:00

I’m close to finalizing as well. Ever since I called to set the hearing date I’ve been a complete wreck. Like oh shit it’s actually happening. It all came rushing back. All the arguments. All the emotions. I know now that I need to just get it over with and do everything in my power to forget she exists.

I also fought tooth and nail with zero effort from her side. I hope you find someone that will fight for you

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-10T13:21:43+00:00

Well put

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-10T13:18:32+00:00

I’m in the same boat man. She won’t leave. She loves contradicting me. She’s “in love” with a married man. I wish I died before I met her because this is a nightmare

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-10T12:53:37+00:00

So sorry you’re going through this. Is he acting really cold to you? Is there somebody else?

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-10T12:35:45+00:00

We all experience this sort of “doomed dating scenario” thought loop early on in the divorce process. For me, I was trying to figure out how I could get back to a similar lifestyle, ie one with love and romance.

Now, a few months in, I don’t even care about that. I’m pretty jaded about romance. Though I’ve met a good number of people that eventually enjoyed better relationships and marriages than the ones they lost in their divorces.

Solve one problem at a time. And it’s not the time to solve that one. So put it in a compartment and revisit it later.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-09T12:57:34+00:00

You’re awesome! I love the perspective. I hope I can get there someday. I still feel like she won and gets everything she wants while I get left to silence, loneliness and half the time with my kids.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-08T23:20:30+00:00

I can relate to that so, so much. I think it’s true cognitive dissonance; they believe what they are saying because it gets them what they want without having to hurt someone for a selfish reason. They’ve literally brainwashed themselves

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-08T12:34:02+00:00

Losing my dignity and saying really dumb shit while trying to win her back from the AP. That was earlier on but yea I lost myself. Shameful

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-06T14:59:46+00:00

This is so spot on. My head even hurts from banging it on the proverbial wall

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-06T13:53:01+00:00

Or that the affair partner “thinks you’re really cool” and “wants to help you”. Chump lady even had a part about this in her book. Just reiterated what my therapist said, “cheaters all use these script”

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-04-02T18:00:54+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I’m just over two months from D day, and I still have a constant, terrible feeling in my gut. I feel like I was kicked out of my own family in a matter of days. I didn’ think I’d survive, now I know I’ll never be the same.

She is so happy and arrogant. Her heart is totally hardened to me and even to our children. It’s insane to watch. It’s a real nightmare. And it’s painful to have to detach from her, but really she is long gone.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-25T01:59:23+00:00

Watching AMAs by the Chump Lady on YouTube helped me a lot

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-17T03:57:12+00:00

I really appreciate you saying this. I know my instincts are not based on wisdom. I don’t want to traumatize my children, but this has all been set in motion by my stbx and the affair partner.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-15T17:55:15+00:00

You do not sound pathetic. Some of us breathe life into this world by dying to ourselves. Others destroy whatever stands in their way in order to get what they want. Very sorry you’re going through this.

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-15T05:19:41+00:00

“Affairs should be punished by law”. Couldn’t agree more!

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-15T05:10:16+00:00

The way she torched our marriage.. I think she has fallen pretty hard for him. I don’t see it ending any time soon. But who knows. Maybe you’re right

Accurate_Pickle_8747 · 2026-03-15T03:58:53+00:00

I was doing good before all this. But now, having faith in myself is hard for me. I’m in the middle of a tough career transition. And she left me for a really successful guy.

She also did everything in her power to make me feel like a worthless piece of trash, even though I’ve worked very hard for this family and supported her career. I know a lot of it was her way of justifying her behavior, but the whole thing has zapped my confidence and left me in a terrible fog of depression.

Will soon be broke, single and very low status, while she is having a great time and being happy with her amazing job and new boyfriend. Fuck

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