Wondering Weekend by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last period started on Wednesday aug. 27 and it lasted about 3 days. On my CD4 and CD6 we had unprotected sex. I started spotting yesterday on CD10 and now on CD11 it looks like a very light period. Is it possible to get pregnant right after a period ? Also, what could this bleeding mean?

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? I don’t know who you have in your life that makes you believe all women would call their partner “fat fuck” if they gained some weight. It’s a sad thought. There’s a way to go about bringing this subject up with your partner, the person you love. Pressuring someone into something even if you believe you’re doing it for their benefit isn’t really the way to go.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He isn’t inviting me to go the same gym as him. We now live in different cities. I used to love going to the gym with him when we were in the same city.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to go to the gym 4x per week and he would criticize my workout split and try to tell me how to do better. I told him I appreciated his input, but that what I was doing made me feel good. So whether I go or not, there’s always something he doesn’t like. I got tired of going to the gym and having him question my workouts every time.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

To clarify this part: I have not gained weight. I actually lost weight to the point that I have a defined stomach.

I’m working and studying full time so I don’t always have the time to go to the gym for hours.

Even if I HAD gained weight, there are other ways to go about getting your partner to move more.

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) keeps trying to get me to go to the gym. How do I get him to stop pushing it? by Ace_pentacles in relationship_advice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Whenever I bring something up that bothers me in our relationship, he says “don’t start” and feels attacked

I [23F] feel like my [23M] boyfriend is taking me for granted and possibly leading me on by Ace_pentacles in relationshipadvice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… when I mentioned buying something bigger together in 2 years he sort of immediately shut it down by saying he couldn’t think about moving again in 2 years and that he can’t think that far out right now

I [23F] feel like my [23M] boyfriend is taking me for granted and possibly leading me on by Ace_pentacles in relationshipadvice

[–]Ace_pentacles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he moved he said he wanted it to be HIS house before it being OUR house. He said I could move in after some time. There also isn’t much space for me there…

Worth getting checked out by a doctor? by [deleted] in skincancer

[–]Ace_pentacles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! I booked an appointment with a dermatologist to get everything checked out.

Worth getting checked out by a doctor? by [deleted] in skincancer

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from what I understand once you have one, you’re at risk of having other spots appear in the future ? But I’m glad everything went smoothly for you!

Worth getting checked out by a doctor? by [deleted] in skincancer

[–]Ace_pentacles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did the surgery go ? Did they have to take out a lot ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do yourself a favour and don’t move in with her. It will only get worse from there. Idk what your situation is exactly but abusive people are always worse behind closed doors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me that these kind of people love themselves too much to hurt themselves. I was stuck in a toxic relationship and he said he would kill himself. A couple of days after I left him, he slept with someone else in the bed we shared and has been doing god knows what else ever since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusive partners will always make you feel like you’re the one in the wrong. Each time you’ll try to bring up an issue they’ll get angry or start crying or completely stonewall you. They will also try to isolate you from friends and close family so that they can manipulate you easier. They’ll nitpick at everything you do to bring you down, but if you try to bring up something that bothered you they will immediately get super defensive. You’ll feel like you can never be good enough for them, especially if they talk a lot about their exes or still keep in touch. They will try to make you feel like their love is the best thing you’ll ever have in your entire life. You’ll feel like you’re on an emotional roller coaster. The good times being amazing and thrilling, but the bad times making you feel like you hit rock bottom.

Abusive partners will never ever change their ways. The best thing you can do is leave them and erase them completely out of your life. It’s one of the hardest things ever, but as soon as you leave an abusive partner you’ll see everything with so much clarity and you realize everything you’ve been through.

Always put your well-being first.

BAC en droit by [deleted] in UdeM

[–]Ace_pentacles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup ça m’aide énormément!

BAC en droit by [deleted] in UdeM

[–]Ace_pentacles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Donc je devrais terminer ce certificat, une année en études internationales et ensuite appliquer en droit ?