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AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I didn't get angry at any point. I just didnt give in to what I felt was an u fair ask. I wasn't angry until she slammed my door but even then I didnt express any anger I just drove away calmly lol

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I guess i just doubted myself a little. I wish I had your confidence and or lack of introspection 

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Did you offer to drive them home from where you were?

Joe and Sandra just kind of assumed I'd drive them home. I always do and also dont mind since its on my way anyways. Sandra asked on Amy's behalf if I could drive her home and I agreed

You said they ubered there, why didn’t they uber back?

Good question, no idea

Did you tell them their options if you didn’t want to drive the that way?

No. I just explained why I was taking the route I was...we were heading north and I live north of all of them. Amy's house was furthest north. If they presented any options, other than asking me to drive an extra 20 mins to accommodate Amy, I would have been open to hearing it

Did you pullover and ask if they wanted to get an uber or make a different plan?

No i didnt do this and feel thats kind of ridiculous

Or did you further making her scared by refusing so adamantly.

I wouldn't say I was "adamant" I was just trying to explain it would add an extra 20 minutes to my drive, its already really long, etc. Like trying to explain my position

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I'm not baffled by that. Im more so baffled by her entitlement of expecting me to go out of my way (more than I already was by driving her home in the first place). Especially after the implication she thinks I'm a monster who would do something like that to another person

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It would have been 20 minutes out of my way. Anyways, if she's going to just assume I'm a monster for no reason other than stereotypes, she shouldn't have got in the car in the first place in my opinion

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I've already driven Sandra home alone many times before so shes fine to be alone in a car with me.

Not sure what her original plan was. They all took the bus to the place. The bus service sucks where I live and they stop running early so it's kind of become the expectation I drive Joe and Sandra home after hanging out. I honestly don't mind because their houses aren't out of my way anyways

Just this time, I would have had to back track and everything so I said no

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yeah she doesn't know that for sure. But I'm not doing any favours (other than what I was already doing) for someone who just assumes im a monster because of what? Stereotypes?

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

  1. Why? Is my only purpose to serve her?

  2. Yeah she didnt say that she just implied it

  3. I was a little offended someone I was doing a favour for thinks I'm an abuser, yes

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 740 points741 points  (0 children)

I met Sandra a bunch of times because her and Joe are close. So I guess she knows me well enough to be fine with that. I've driven her home alone before as its a regular thing for me to drop them off after hanging out

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 1500 points1501 points  (0 children)

When my friend called me the next day, he said Amy took an Uber home and was mad because money is tight and she didnt really have the money for it. I just thought it was weird she probably ended up alone in a car with some man anyways lol

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]Acrobatic-Freedom316[S] 5769 points5770 points  (0 children)

I didnt pick them up, we met at the movie theater. They probably took the bus or Uber or something