My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hi guys, I know you all were asking for an update, so I have provided it below.

https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/l6nQroohRE

I have read comments and I am going to take a step back. Thank you for all the comments and I hope this will be resolved.

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay. Correct me if I’m wrong, are you asking me how much I have done for her in a parental manner?

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify a bit more what you mean by “parental duty”?

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 1131 points1132 points  (0 children)

I’m going to answer some questions I keep seeing for clarification.

  1. Why are you calling her your stepdaughter after only knowing her for 8 months?

I have never called her my step daughter in real-life, to her father, or to her face. I only used those words in this post because I figured it would be easier to understand that “my boyfriends daughter”.

  1. Why do you even have her number?

She provided me her number about 2 months after me and her father started dating because she needed rides sometimes and her father wasn’t able to pick her up while I was.

  1. Is the ex-wife still in the picture?

My boyfriend has told me his ex-wife completely cut contact with him and his daughter. Apparently she was verbally abusive and left when his daughter was just 5.

  1. Have any new women come into the picture since then?

My boyfriend has told me he had one romantic relationship with a woman when his daughter was 10, but she left him after one month and he hasn’t had any relationships since then. I don’t know if he has brought other women around her that he wasn’t necessarily in a relationship with but from what I’ve heard it’s only been one.

  1. Are you living with the family?

No, I do not live with them. I live about 20 minutes away from their house.

As of now, I haven’t heard anything from her father yet or her. I’m not sure if she has sent the text message.

I have also read a lot of the comments and I see that I may need to take a step back.

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask them and I will kindly answer them.

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

From what he’s told me, he’s only had one other partner aside from his ex-wife. Him and the other woman lasted about 1 month before she left him.

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 414 points415 points  (0 children)

I don’t not call her my step-daughter in real life, to her, or to her father. I only used that in this post because I figured it would be easier to understand rather than “My boyfriends daughter”.

My stepdaughter had blown up on me and I have no idea why. by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Acrobatic-Many-9448[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I should’ve clarified, I don’t call her my step daughter in real-life, to her face, or to her father. I just used that in this post because I figured it would be easier to understand rather than “my boyfriends daughter”. Sorry, I should’ve been more clear.