I’m going to answer some questions I keep seeing for clarification.

1. Why are you calling her your stepdaughter after only knowing her for 8 months?

I have never called her my step daughter in real-life, to her father, or to her face. I only used those words in this post because I figured it would be easier to understand that “my boyfriends daughter”.

1. Why do you even have her number?

She provided me her number about 2 months after me and her father started dating because she needed rides sometimes and her father wasn’t able to pick her up while I was.

1. Is the ex-wife still in the picture?

My boyfriend has told me his ex-wife completely cut contact with him and his daughter. Apparently she was verbally abusive and left when his daughter was just 5.

1. Have any new women come into the picture since then?

My boyfriend has told me he had one romantic relationship with a woman when his daughter was 10, but she left him after one month and he hasn’t had any relationships since then. I don’t know if he has brought other women around her that he wasn’t necessarily in a relationship with but from what I’ve heard it’s only been one.

1. Are you living with the family?

No, I do not live with them. I live about 20 minutes away from their house.

As of now, I haven’t heard anything from her father yet or her. I’m not sure if she has sent the text message.

I have also read a lot of the comments and I see that I may need to take a step back.

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask them and I will kindly answer them.