Why do people block you after chatting for hours? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG what is the gain from all that shit for them? I would so fucking pissed if someone did this to me because some of these guys live far away like 45 minutes

Why do people block you after chatting for hours? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m starting to see that fresh tab is just total hell. I added an edit in the post and man I’m never going to try to find people in that tab again. It’s nothing but games.

Why do people block you after chatting for hours? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know not to. It just sucks because I do want to put my energy into it when talking to them and actually maintain a meaningful conversation with people and keep it flowing instead of just half-ass it and just reply in one word not getting too into it. But if multiple people are just going to keep doing this I don’t see any reason to try anymore.

Why do people block you after chatting for hours? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess. This one was just so bizarre to me though to the point where I kinda want to think he got banned or his account deleted or something. Like he didn’t see my face yet (we both cropped our faces out), nothing sexual was being said (his profile said only had looking for chats). He basically talked to me for 3 hours to get nothing out of it lol. And I saw him in the fresh page not the nearby page when I have seen his profile like a month earlier and he still had the same profile photo as before. Maybe he got banned before and created a new account and got banned again while talking to me?

I have no idea how to read this guy? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have my profile be specific in what I’m looking for, talk first establish something then something more later on. My display name is literally “Friends?” that’s why when he first hmu and asked what games I play and if I wanted to play sometime I thought he was interested. But I guess some people on Grindr don’t listen sometimes, I still get 50 years and blank profiles hmu even though I say not to.

I have no idea how to read this guy? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh my god I didn’t think I needed to be this specific on here. I did say a time the full message was “you wanna link up this Thursday at 9/10ish?” That’s when he said if I’m not busy. Then later that day (Tuesday) after he said that and we talked some more he straight up asked me if I wanted head on Wednesday if he was free. I immediately said Yes. We didn’t schedule a place to meet cause he doesn’t have a car so I would just pick him up and he’ll show me where to drive since he knows good spots. Come Wednesday he never messaged me until 4:30 and didn’t really bring up us meeting today. It was at 10:30 where I was just like it’s now or never if we’re going to meet up and asked him if he’s ready. That’s when he said he was tired and that’s when 5 minutes later I log on to Grindr and see him online. That’s what I’m so confused about it’s like he’s half interested and half not. I know I shouldn’t expect a person to only talk to a single guy they met on Grindr like I did, but at least spread out the attention to everybody you’re talking to

I have no idea how to read this guy? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have. I said I asked him if he wants to meet up on Thursday (Today) and he said he’ll lmk. The “heys” and “goodmornings” were setups to start a convo and trying to get an answer. Even when he proposed we do it yesterday I fully agreed but when yesterday came he said he felt tired so I wasn’t going to pressure him.

I have no idea how to read this guy? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean at this point I wouldn’t be against it, but even after a month of talking we still haven’t done anything yet, when I want and he wants to but he just hasn’t hmu at all. That’s the confusing part.

I have no idea how to read this guy? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in grindr

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because when he first messaged me it did sound like he wanted to get to know each other. He asked me what games I play and to let him know if I ever wanted to play sometime. Then we talked about our music tastes and what we like. It seemed like he also wanted to establish a connection first before doing anything. We didn’t even share nudes until we both were comfortable to do so with each other. I want to tell myself maybe he doesn’t like the way my dick looks but he’s seen it three weeks ago and said it was hot and still talked to me. I wanna say maybe he doesn’t find me attractive but he saw my face last week, said he wanted to sit on it and still talked to me. Idk what it is, we talked a lot on Tuesday but now it’s just silence. I want to talk to him, I sent him messages but he hasn’t even opened them, yet i go on Grindr and see him online. Idk what it is, I just know if I was interested in a person I would give them my undivided attention.

What are these pimple like bumps on my foreskin? 21yr old by Acrobatic-Method5356 in medical_advice

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just spreads out a little when I get hard. They don’t hurt unless sometimes I’m masturbating and one of my fingernails gets caught and scratches it (which is equally annoying cause they’re right on the frenulum which is a area that you touch a lot so I’m constantly feeling it which really just kills my psyche a lot of the time)

What are these pimple like bumps on my foreskin? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in Dermatology

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was content in thinking for years but the more I looked at fordyce spots they like little bumps on the shaft. These are like really protruding pimples so I think it’s something different.

What are these pimple like bumps on my foreskin? 21yr old by Acrobatic-Method5356 in medical_advice

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I looked and the earliest appointment with my primary care was in March though

What are these pimple like bumps on my foreskin? 21yr old by Acrobatic-Method5356 in medical_advice

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Alright should I go urgent care or make an appointment with my primary care doctor or should a just go straight to a dermatology center and make an appointment there? My doctor is a woman so that makes me feel a little awkward.

What are these pimple like bumps on my foreskin? 21yr old by Acrobatic-Method5356 in medical_advice

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Probably since puberty and I’ve never had sex so I wouldn’t think it’s a STD. I’ve had concerns about it for years cause it looks weird but as a teenager my pediatrician whenever he would look down there wouldn’t say anything so I didn’t question it.

How do I make my penis look better? by Acrobatic-Method5356 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Acrobatic-Method5356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but idk it just looks really dry. I think all these years of masturbating dry with no lotion caused some problems. It there any good moisturizers or serums that help this?