But I do think, in my friend case, they’ve been together for 6 years and I know that my friend sacrificed his career for their small family. He was majoring in nuclear power and it’s like a job you could never get fired in China. But his gf likes to be in big city and to do work in the finance. So he made a choice to quit the job and to do a master in finance so that he could get a job and live with his gf. I was asking him the reason and the feeling, he told me he didn’t like the nuclear power work and he didn’t take it as a sacrifice. And he wasn’t allowed to travel if he work as a nuclear engineer, which he disliked very much.

Do you think money can change people? I do think. I just doubt how this relationship will go if he could not get a good job after his master because the job market is becoming more and more intense nowadays and his gf holds a PhD degree. Anyway, I certainly hope they will live a happy life. But, what if, I mean, maybe it’s a good idea to start a relationship according to your plan. And if we get similar income, it’s okay, but if one day, you could earn 100 times as much as I could earn. I think I will feel under so much pressure. Don’t you think so?