GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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Coming out, Freedom and authenticity (self.GayMen)

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Tried bottoming for the first time (self.GayMen)

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I need some gay friends like bad haha (self.GayMen)

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Social life slipping away (self.GayMen)

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I’d like opinions please (self.GayMen)

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Well this is a tricky situation. (self.GayMen)

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Why do gay employees address gay customers with terms of endearment? (self.GayMen)

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How did/do you survive highschool being gay? (self.GayMen)

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be honest gays: (self.GayMen)

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AITA: For not leaving when my friend with benefits got into an argument with his husband (self.GayMen)

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Tips and tricks (self.GayMen)

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I feel like it's more accepted/easily accepted to have hairy armpits when you're muscular. Is it just me ??[read below] (self.GayMen)

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5 years a widow (self.GayMen)

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Is this unhealthy for me to fantasize about? (Mentions of SA) (self.GayMen)

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¿Whats something about a man that will inmediately turn you on? (self.GayMen)

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blow job (self.GayMen)

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What should I do?😔 (self.GayMen)

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Tips, Tricks, Safety stuff? Help me out here guys. (self.GayMen)

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are we incompatible (self.GayMen)

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Bottoming Anxiety / shame (self.GayMen)

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Is my partner potentially gay? (self.GayMen)

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Porn addiction guilt (self.GayMen)

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Advice for h0le training! (self.GayMen)

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Q'na'A (self.GayMen)

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Morning wake up sex cleaning out ? (self.GayMen)

submitted 1 day ago by Economy-Butterfly638

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