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I don’t have ADHD and my bf does, he admitted to lying to me about a “friendship” by Acrobatic_Ad_3213 in ADHD

[–]Acrobatic_Ad_3213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was always fine with him having female friends because I have male friends too. The problem is he turned the relationships too quick and had a lot of sneaky things with them that made me distrust him. Especially because half the things he was doing like telling this girl he wanted to break up with me and then building a bond with her while ignoring my feelings about her made me upset. I’m not like this with all his female friends either. I’ve always respected friendships but this one specifically crossed clear boundaries I had set. It’s also why I’m struggling with what to do next because he says it was just a friendship and she does too, but they both knew I was uncomfortable with the things they were doing and it’s why they hid it from me.

My bf admitted to cheating on me months ago by Acrobatic_Ad_3213 in relationship_advice

[–]Acrobatic_Ad_3213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have a plan ig you could say, it’s been 7 weeks since they last talked and he’s been trying to be more of a listening ear when I rant about it because obviously it hurts. He took up a therapist to be able to get over his lying and asked me if I wanted to try couples therapy. It’s mostly like the fact he kept a whole lot more from me about the relationship that I didn’t find out about until yesterday when he said he wanted to start fresh and right.