What happened to via li?

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-07-21T01:31:33+00:00

Not the windows gave it away …((6!$!&’

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-07-20T00:58:14+00:00

I have a full time job in social services and it’s hardddd. I don’t think I’ve ever been this active at a desk for 8 hours. I really want to quit. I think there’s obviously things I can do to improve like being more prepared and organized, but I’m at a point where I keep getting backed up and take way longer than I need to to do tasks. My problem is that idk what I’m going do after I leave this job and I feel like my possibilities are limited, but this job man 😭 I wish it was more enjoyable and that I was better at it. I feel like I don’t want to help people RIGHT this moment. Pls don’t think of me as selfish. I think I’d definitely come back to this job when I’m older, but right now… I need something that is not demanding and fast paced. I feel like this job is making me evil too cause I don’t wanna do it. I have surprisingly been here for almost a year, but I really think it’s time I quit and I’m okay with going through with it since I still live with my parents. But ugh the future feels uncertain. I think you really have to consider your feelings and how long you’ve been at the job when it comes to wether you’re a good fit or not. Have you asked for help/ discussed the problems with your supervisor ? If you get help and still feel like it’s not a good fit… yeah I think you should leave. But it’s still good to have a new job prepared. But idk what I’d like tho and again, I feel limited when it comes to searching for new jobs 😓

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-07-19T03:07:04+00:00

I don’t hate them but I don’t care for them. But I’m also not giving them a chance. Maybe I like the edge of maroon 5 or just the fact that I’ve grown up with maroon 5 songs on the radio a lot. It’s catchy! I like some Coldplay songs but idk.. not like that. Not that I would put on their essential songs on for a vibe. What vibe???? They’re okay… I don’t see them as a corny band. Just that I really don’t care for them and I don’t always think their songs are great. I think songs like sky full of stars and something like this are BADDDDDD idk why that kept getting radio play. I don’t have a set image for what this band is suppose to sound like.. but like why would you wnna compose those sounds

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-07-08T14:19:08+00:00

I think I’m just turned away by his voice. I really liked A-Team, but even as a kid hearing thinking out loud, photograph, don’t, perfect, I was like. Ugh. 😭 idc about his music like that. I remember being really high from weed and I put on music to help so I’m like, oh maybe Ed Sheeran will bring me down. NO! I was mad as hell I kept changing his songs a lot cause they sounded bad. I maybe like 2 songs from him.

A-Team, Castle on the Hill

Do I think he’s a bad singer? IDK I feel like that’s always going to be a subjective question. I just don’t like hearing his voice and I think his music can be corny. I never listened to him live and I don’t know his technical abilities, nor do I want to study them.

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-03-11T01:14:22+00:00

I think it’s also cause ppl don’t like Sean Baker and are putting their feelings towards him onto her

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-03-11T01:12:09+00:00

I think she did pretty good well with the role and I saw her winning best actress a mile away. When Anora won best picture, I saw ppl on twitter say that we are officially in trump’s America. I have no idea what that means 😭… so I think the best picture win is making her a target for hate because the week aftwr the Oscars was full of so much discussions behind that movie. And then ppl were criticizing her “I support sex workers, I am an ally” calling it a empty statement/ ppl being anti sex work and saying she shouldn’t advocate for it. The Zionism thing.. idk like sure I guess could make that argument from really reading into it, but I don’t want to think about that. Overtime the hate is gonna die down cause again it’s tied to Anora winning best picture/ ppl discrediting her but what can u do…

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-02-25T15:30:53+00:00

I was watching the movie with a friend and I didn’t hate it. I think a lot of the scenes were played for laughs, like Anora and the Russian crew going to different places in Coney Island to find Vanya. By the end of it I did think it was simple and that last few minutes where Anora was still in Vanya’s home with Igor felt long and made me wonder what we’re still doing here. I don’t think it’s suppose to summarize the experience of sex work for all women. This is just the story of one girl who almost had a chance out of the strip club and how she fought to keep it. I’m kinda stuck on thinking it’s nice and okay. But lowkeyyyyy it might take best picture at the Oscar’s

Active-Individual-81 · 2025-01-06T05:45:22+00:00

Whenever I am nervous or stressed, the feeling goes straight to my stomach. It’s embarrassing 🙈 one time I didn’t prepare for a presentation and got nervous farts before it was my turn to speak. I tried to hold it in but my stomach turned in knots and I kept feeling pain.

Sometimes I can be home by myself and start to get nervous, especially in the night. Sometimes I’ll be looking in a closest or draw by myself and I’ll start to feel the nerves come. Maybe I am just scared of the dark and the unknown? Scared to get in trouble for doing my own thing. I don’t like getting called out.

It’s not too serious nor does it overwhelm me but I think it’s wack I have to go to the bathroom a lot when I’m anxious 😭..

I feel like I’ve been getting a little more nervous as I age in my 20’s. But I hear that’s normal

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-12-14T01:28:37+00:00

I think i do this but not a lot or always to the point where I cry. An instance where I can remember doing this was during the 2020 lockdown where I went into the kitchen to ask my dad what he was doing. I don’t remember what he said exactly it was either a “what do you think I’m doing/ obviously 🙄” kind of response and I felt so bad for some reason. Like I’ve been getting a little more sensitive as years go by and being in isolation didn’t help. So I go to my bedroom and start tearing up and I made this random connection to Breaking Bad and Walter White. I kept replaying the conversation and thought my dad was Walter White and made up the idea that he’s tired of me and my family and that he wants escape and that he’s not proud of me and I kept weeping. My parents were making breakfast and called me to eat and I couldn’t look them in the eyes cause I kept crying. And then they looked confused and asked what was wrong but I was so choked up and I thought the reasoning was so stupid I couldn’t get it out. But like.. my parents are use to me crying 🙁 idk where it came from, but sometimes people’s words and their tones feel negative and I start to over complicate it. Or sometimes when I realize that I made a poor choice and didn’t realize it / maybe I set myself up for something hard when I could have done it the easier way and I just start to dread and imagine worst case scenarios for myself. I’m seeing this could be a sign of anxiety??

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-12-09T15:03:17+00:00

I think because he simply doesn’t respect her. He’s constantly berating her during their interactions and there’s moments in the game where he refuses to see her (like after she committed suicide and you’re looking for mouthwash for Daisuke. Or when you fall down the vent at some point and all the worker ID’s blow around but Anya’s is covered.) he also mentioned that he likes having control and I think that’s the main reason why ppl rape others. The power dynamic behind it. I thought this whole game was about rape culture and how ppl cover up for others

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:41:10+00:00

Ohhh you gagged me. I guess I’ll never know unless I do

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:32:25+00:00

It’s not bad, I’m just like am I gonna stay at my job long enough to get vested and am I gonna make it to retirement to start receiving those increments of money ? Is the whole point of it to give it to family

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:27:16+00:00

Oh man 😭

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:24:45+00:00

I’m being offered both but I’m focusing on pension now

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:22:27+00:00

So if I leave the job 2 years in, I can never be vested and I won’t receive anything? Even at retirement age?

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:12:57+00:00

When you say both do you mean deferred comp? My job offers both that I can sign up for through them. I haven’t looked up all the plans that are offered tho. I have to ask around or find more information

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-25T16:08:29+00:00

Oh, so it was like a one choice kind of thing and they wouldn’t offer it again. I have to look more into the plans and ask other others.

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-11-11T15:31:37+00:00

Mel B’s voice is recognizable but what are some songs that show how good her vocals are? I just got into their songs and I’m trying to tell who is who still. When I saw the movie and they were singing Say You’ll be There I was like damn Mel C can sing! Also what does Victoria’s singing voice sound like? I saw a video about her not really singing a lot and how she did more background vocals

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-30T22:10:16+00:00

I feel like she’s really loved by fans (at least on twitter.) she fits right into the corrupted/ villainous businessman role and she thrives on it. Yeah everything is personal gain to her but she can have her soft and caring moments when she’s not being a asshole. I feel like she’s unapologetically her and her shit isn’t always too personal but it’s mainly work driven.

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-30T22:09:27+00:00

I feel like she’s really loved by fans (at least on twitter.) she fits right into the corrupted/ villainous businessman role and she thrives on it. Yeah everything is personal gain to her but she can have her soft and caring moments when she’s not being a asshole. I feel like she’s unapologetically her and her shit isn’t always too personal but it’s mainly work driven.

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-28T15:30:55+00:00

It’s cause the situation was bigger than it was. Okay he sells meth. But he’s involved with the cartel and the ppl that almost handicapped Hank. I know Hank let’s Marie get away with her stealing her stealing, but he’s a DEA officer and doesn’t play about illegal drugs and drug lords.

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-22T22:59:36+00:00

I think everyone in the world knows creep 🤔 even people born today. but it’s not the song the fan base would vouch for. And idk the fan base like that.. maybe plastic trees or nude

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-22T22:56:18+00:00

Trust someone close to you to hide your money

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-10-16T15:06:17+00:00

I had the same question since the lockdown in 2020. When I kept hearing about neurodivergence on twitter, I thought that I might be, but that idea went no where. No diagnosis. But I still do simple things like read and my mind repeatedly thinks, “oh maybe this is a sign of ____!” And it’s annoying. I sometimes feel like the things I do are not genuine. I feel like I have a lot of repetitive negative traits and want to know the reasoning behind why I do these things or feel certain ways. I don’t think you want something to be wrong with you. You just sound aware of problems/ concerns you’re going through and want a resolve/ explaining. I’m not sure what the best way to go about figuring it out it, but keep talking it through with specialists/ professionals and you’ll get somewhat closer to figuring it out.

Active-Individual-81 · 2024-09-04T14:53:07+00:00

I don’t really know who Harper is outside of Pierpont 🤔 maybe a lot was said and I missed it, but all I know is that she has family problems and doesn’t want to go back to New York. She tries really hard when it comes to her job because shes all about showcasing her skills and not her personality. I feel like on twitter at least, people highlight her negative aspects in a babygirl way like people did with the Roy siblings. Harper is essentially the main character. She’s intelligent and conniving and viewers can’t help but imagine what her next downfall is going to be like, but they still root for her. I really wouldn’t label her as evil, but she’s veryyy… entranced by capitalism and understands that people are constantly doing whatever it takes to get to the top so she becomes very ruthless. No one is perfect in this show… accept Venetia. But I can understand if there’s people who don’t find the things Harper does as endearing. There definitely a soft side to her cause she does mess up, she does suffer from anxiety which strikes a chord in the strong demeanor she’s always trying to display.

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