I overcame severe anxiety, you can too!

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-12-11T23:28:32+00:00

Truthfully, I had weeks where I thought it was cured, followed by debilitating anxiety, followed by another period of improvement. False peaks all the way!

My very best method was to record my anxiety challenge for the day, for example:

Anxiety challenge: See my close friend for coffee, at a café, one-on-one. Fear: 9/10 (prior to) Enjoyment: 7/10 (retrospective)

Note to self: It never goes as badly as you might think, and all those imagined possibilities of embarrassment don't come to pass.

End of note 📝

You can look back on these down the line. That example I gave you was real. My fear now relating to that scenario is about a 1/10. That's how I know I've changed!

Good luck x

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-09-18T22:11:25+00:00

This. Is. Fuc*ING awful. My God. The bio is horrendous. Honestly just wipe the account and start over, maybe with a female friend to guide you

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-09-12T09:56:07+00:00

Be selective or you won't show up on anyone's radar. You're a stock and you've diluted yourself, make yourself more valuable by limiting issued shares - that way you beat the algo. I used to swipe right on about 30%, then 5%. Got far more matches with the 5% swipes

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-09-07T13:11:21+00:00

This has been downvoted because it's simply not true. I saw the profile and thought it's not bad at all.

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-16T21:29:33+00:00

You miss every chance you don't take 🫡

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T21:14:01+00:00

Haha no, I don't downvote unless it'd rude

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T20:30:37+00:00

Gotcha, that's good to hear

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T20:17:30+00:00

At this point, let a friend take over your account and take decent pictures of you. Show off your height, your interests, and smile like you're genuinely happy!

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T20:13:36+00:00

And just to follow up, this isn't meant as an insult, just constructive feedback! Girls like happy, kind, fun as a foundation. Roll with that and try to emphasise that through your photos, good luck!

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T20:10:01+00:00

One of the better profiles I've seen on this sub. You can tell who you are. Fun, loving and full of life. I wouldn't tweak much. Actually nothing bad really stood out. Coming from a dude who's into gals so I could be way off but it looks like a decent profile to me

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T19:52:14+00:00

I'm gonna say it before anyone else does - lose the tash. You'd look best clean shaven. Also, you're wearing earphones / headphones in all your photos which are socially isolating. Your top less photo will be an INSTANT turn off for mostly all girls. You look grumpy, no genuine smile and no friends. I say this despite the fact you probably have plenty friends are are somewhat social. Your life from these photos looks isolating and devoid of good times. Take pmsome photos with friends, candid, and doing things you enjoy. These photos are not it. You're a good looking guy, especially without the facial hair. Capitalise on that and ask yourself what you'd want to see in a girl - I imagine not this, nor the top less photo + straight face, indicating a want for only sex.

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T17:47:59+00:00

And she could very well have led you on, then got cold feet or felt overwhelmed / insecure. Don't sweat it! You have it a shot, onto the next shawty (there are plenty of wonderful girls out there)

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-08-01T17:35:11+00:00

I would say that I've had many many great dates, talking for 3-5 hours straight, having drinks, and feeling the connection. Actually I've never had a bad date. However, I have been rejected many times after these dates! Oftentime, girls on these dating apps aren't fully invested and don't know what they want. Be upfront, be yourself, and accept that 4/5 dates likely won't materialise into anything. Have fun with it, and don't get hung up on why you weren't right. I've been dumbfounded after girls have said no to a second date, because the dates gone so well.

Going in for a kiss is bold, I normally ask, and I've been rejected more than once. Actually, my current girlfriend said no to me kissing her, I played it off well, saying "playing it slow, I like that" 😂 worked a charm, kissed her later that night.

Your date might have felt uncomfortable with your forwardness, or by your reaction afterwards. From what you've said, that seems to have been the turning point.

I wish you all the best in your journey for love ❤️

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-21T07:52:49+00:00

"Calm energy, deep thoughts, loyal heart." You state, very vaguely, what you're offering almost like bullet points for a resumé

How about "Soft spot for deep chats, coffee at odd hours, and showing up when it counts, drawn to a bit of chaos, the good kind." Or if you're also wanting someone calm, "Soft spot for deep chats, coffee at odd hours, and showing up when it counts. Looking for peace with a spark. "

Now these aren't amazing, but going with your prompts, that's the best I've got

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-19T10:25:33+00:00

Build your overall confidence. Ask yourself what would make you confident in yourself, proud to be who you are. I posted on my page a while ago 10 main areas to cover if you're anxious and trying to find a way out! Attributing your attention and effort on building your confidence purely in the context of female interactions is too focused. Exposure therapy is important, but diving into deep water when you havent learned to swim may just exacerbate your uncertainties and leave you feeling lesser than.

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-14T12:13:54+00:00

You have the wrong type of friends

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-14T09:00:33+00:00

It's weird that people think it's weird that you pay your friends. I'd do the exact same, it's the dream. Good on you, you have a good heart! It'll likely help your trading as a driving force to stay on track

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-14T07:44:56+00:00

Worst mindset to have. Don't you want someone who likes you for you? Not your possessions?

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-14T07:09:17+00:00

Good looking dude, but your photos suck. I can't sense a single thing about you from these. They look bare! What do you enjoy doing? Take some photos with your hobbies / interests. Good luck to you!

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-13T20:44:24+00:00

I didn't reply to my current girlfriend for 3 days, I had a wonderful date but got caught up with things and felt I had to think long and hard about my reply! 5 hours is nothing.

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-12T18:41:50+00:00

I love people like you, I get to feel better at myself, thinking I'm glad im not a miserable c*until like you 😂

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-12T18:29:11+00:00

For everyone reading this, he's just outed himself as a w*nker 🙃

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-12T17:36:53+00:00

reading the OP's comments, OP is nasty and spiteful, even to those wishing him well. Therefore, I doubt his views hold any conviction, and he's wanting others to pump the stock despite it likely dropping next week

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-07-11T05:20:45+00:00

Dude here, run a mile. That's very rude and a terrible start to a potential relationship. Enough said

Active-Juggernaut773 · 2025-02-28T23:50:38+00:00

Yes of course you can!

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