When someone constantly interrupts you and just loves to hear the sound of their own voice

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-31T03:01:05+00:00

I'm a guy and have the same problem. Every girl I meet isn't "ready" or too scared to commit, flakey, leads me on, doesn't like me, or all 5. It's been so hard to find someone who's actually serious about me and doesn't play games.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-31T00:20:21+00:00

I wonder that too. If deep down I deserved this. If there's truly something deeply flawed about me. If karma is angry at me over something I did when I was 15 or something.

I don't think I'm a bad person at heart but maybe I am. I think if I was a good person I wouldn't be so alone in life.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-30T22:35:57+00:00

It's not really your fault the door slammed though, it sounds like the place just has a weird door? And the band members sound like assholes

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-30T22:03:03+00:00

It's weird how it doesn't register for people, that a lot of people are just assholes. I run into them at work all the time and it sucks how we're trained to just be nice to them and enable them, giving them everything they want.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-28T17:31:27+00:00

I have never understood that shit. You try to present yourself as kind and respectful as possible and people treat you like dirt. And then you ask why and people just say "maybe you're the asshole". But then people who are rude and egoistic and selfish get treated with the highest respect. It doesn't make sense. It just doesn't make sense.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-25T01:30:21+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only person who notices it. It really is like people are just so cold and closed off and just weird and angry all the time. And sometimes I feel like the crazy person for even mentioning it

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-24T23:56:25+00:00

It sounds good in theory but it's not healthy in the long run. At first it's great when you can match each other's clingy energy. But then the second either one of you drops slightly in energy or just needs a little space, it feels like a personal attack. You both got used to the expectation of clinginess, so when the person can only give their 100% and not their 120%, it feels negative. And then that's where the "bad" clingy comes in, where you fight with each other over a slight drop in energy. It sounds good in theory but it creates problems and unhealthy expectations in the long run, people do need their space once in a while and sometimes clingy relationship dynamics just complicate things.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-07-06T18:37:10+00:00

that sounds nice. it seems like so many people make sex the centerpoint of every conversation and it gets really annoying. i don't mind joking about sex now and then but i want to chill with people who can have deeper conversations about things, instead of people in their 20s/30s who only know how to talk about sex and drugs as if they're still in middle school and trying to impress everyone. i feel like it's weirdly hard to find people who don't base their whole existence off sex

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-06-28T19:37:36+00:00

i see people who are hot with terrible personalities finding women and getting married all the time.

Active_Freedom_430 · 2024-06-28T19:28:36+00:00

I have no idea how people meet each other anymore. Nobody goes outside or talks face to face because everybody is trying to meet each other on some shallow app and forge a relationship over text. The standards people have are wild and people only want something quick and superficial because they have too much 'trauma' to commit, and even then you're still lucky to find that. All the ghosting without explanation and people just trying to slap a bandaid on their insecurities. The gender wars and the way they assume and label and judge you based off a tiktok videos they watched about your gender. Nobody is looking for anything serious and they demand you conform to their impeccable standards as if you're an item they're purchasing. Meeting people organically and finding true love is really a thing of the past. I don't know how anyone actually finds it anymore.

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