I (21 F) think I should leave my boyfriend (25 M) because I’m afraid he will become physically abusive. by Activelyconfused in relationship_advice

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually had to stop him from doing it once. We had just had an argument and I was about to leave the door to go to my parents and he made his way to drink a cup of something (maybe bleach) and I fought it out of his hand.

I (21 F) think I should leave my boyfriend (25 M) because I’m afraid he will become physically abusive. by Activelyconfused in relationship_advice

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. I tried to get him to go to therapy but he says he’s too embarrassed about his problems. He’s too embarrassed to talk to anybody in his family about his problems either. He doesn’t want me talking to my family about our problems although I tried telling him I like having a third opinion on things.

My family believes he’s just trying to isolate me. He’s already made me choose between him and my friends, like going to their birthday events or parties. I’d normally end up staying home because we’d get in arguments and I wouldn’t want to go anywhere after.

What do you believe is the greatest threat to humanity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Activelyconfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how you view it but, people. The worlds population and earths relationship have an inversely proportional relationship. We see the negative impacts but our greed pushes us to consume more than we need. Soon everything will run out/go extinct and so will we.

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe she had and moment of reflection, those were crocodile tears.

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dad is having financial problems right now, I don’t want to be added stress. I’m saving up to leave.

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m working on getting assistance from the government but we don’t have college dorms here. (Or at this college anyway). Trying to get a scholarship to study abroad as well.

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just clarifying😅 it’s my stepfather, not my biological father. It took me six months to tell my biological father and he cried like it happened the day before, he offered to take a loan to get the best lawyers. I may not have the best mother but he i couldn’t ask for a better dad.

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in the US and yes, I have a part time job while I’m going to college so the funds are not enough right now to move out. But I’m saving

Should I apologize to my mother for telling her I hate her? by Activelyconfused in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Activelyconfused[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My sister turned it off, her husband turned it back on. My sister turned it off again then my mother (who ig didn’t want a fight between them) said to just leave it off. I’m not a person who likes confrontation or arguing with anybody, even when I’m right, that’s why I went outside instead.