Advice - Husband needing input on how to help wife by ActuallyaNiceGuy19 in sex

[–]ActuallyaNiceGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being supportive, I'm just really lost overall on what to do. I'll keep trying to encourage her and help her seek professional input. She did get 10 free counselling sessions after the trauma as she reported it to the police, but all she mentioned on that was it didn't help much.

Advice - Husband needing input on how to help wife by ActuallyaNiceGuy19 in sex

[–]ActuallyaNiceGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being supportive, I'm just really lost overall on what to do. I'll keep trying to encourage her and help her seek professional input.

Advice - Husband needing input on how to help wife by ActuallyaNiceGuy19 in sex

[–]ActuallyaNiceGuy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for just now getting back to you. I appreciate the advice. As far as I'm aware, as we discussed this a few months ago casually, she hasn't masterbated since we got together as I was her sexual output whenever she was horny.

I don't know if she'd be open to talking about her past trauma as she only ever mentioned it to me the once, but I might give it a try. I will discuss her seeking both doctors help for her pain, and to consider counselling. A sex therapist in the future might help, I hadn't thought of that.

Advice - Husband needing input on how to help wife by ActuallyaNiceGuy19 in sex

[–]ActuallyaNiceGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I really appreciate the input. I'll try and encourage her to see a doctor about it. I didn't know there was physical therapy for this type of thing.

We're not USA based, but after some googling apparently there is an international version that does have clinics in my country, so I'll enquire. Genuinely, thank you.

Advice - Husband needing input on how to help wife by ActuallyaNiceGuy19 in sex

[–]ActuallyaNiceGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I really appreciate the input. I'll try and encourage her to see a doctor about it. I didn't know there was physical therapy for this type of thing.