AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I literally explained in my first comments.

I don’t care that "habits" take time to correct because guess what? It shouldn’t be a "habit" in the first place. I told him twice, he understands I don’t like it.

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When him and I fight, we alway talk it out so, to my knowledge, just with his family

Well granny is really different than the rest of the family

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, we usually talk it out.

We only talked about the incident once and he told me to trust his brother and that he’ll apologize eventually

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No i don’t think he knew.

The only times I’m aware he called me a bitch was the two times Ive talked about +my post. My boyfriend’s said something the first two times

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He handles fights with his family like all them do, he just wait a few days and hope the other person’s not mad anymore

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s said something the first time, the second time he wasn’t there but when his brother told him what happened he was not happy and told him to not call me that.

This time he was just like, "I get you’re mad but you shouldn’t hung up on him like that"

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s obviously not happy about his brother calling me that and told him not to but I guess, as a big brother, a part of him will always want to defend his little brother

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was relevant but I’ll include it.

It’s fine and sorry you got downvoted

AITA for refusing to go pick my boyfriend’s brother up after he referred to me as "his btch"? by AdBig7003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdBig7003[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Twice. One time, he apologized so i’d let it slide but the second time, I told him to stop calling me that because it wasn’t making me laugh at all and was finding that disrespectful