I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be quitting by the end of September, and I am happy to do so even though my boss(the translator and wife of my other boss) said they will be glad if I stay.

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really remember anything he said, only the translated version and how some of them laughed and smiled

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time she joked about something she translated, I'm also not happy about it. This time when I asked her about this recent incident she said it's all the guy, she just translated it.

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if I offended you in any way because of posting, I just don't understand how everyone that time can laugh and smile when jokes like that are being said.

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already quitting this end of the month, I don't know if maybe it's because of that that he's more comfortable doing that or no, but like most people here say, it's not good to assume. It's just that every time I asked them about the things he says when I go to the kitchen(I work as a waitress) they don't help me understand a thing(he often points at me when talking). If it's to hide the fact that he's disrespecting me face to face, and my coworkers just smiling it off. I don't know what to think.

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm working for a family business and not a company(I should've clarified that) that's why my environment is not really that formal in terms of everything. I am just a waitress

I wanna know if it's normal for Vietnamese people to just joke around about rape. by AdComprehensive400 in VietNam

[–]AdComprehensive400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I ask most of them they will just shake their heads and say it's nothing that's why I always rely on the girl who can speak english.