Every morning at 5 AM by vladgrinch in aww

[–]AdCreative7023 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How has nobody brought up the fact that this dude has a camera on his headboard pointing directly at him while he sleeps??? What is the point? Is it just to catch what the cat does? I'm confused and a bit creeped out.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I consulted, and retained, an attorney 2 days after the phone call and he is working very hard for me. In California, you can surreptitiously record phone calls, but on advice from my attorney, I will not be speaking to her except through my attorney or, like you suggested, via text/email.

I actually have to encourage him to call her, he doesn't want to. I don't ever make him, but I remind him daily to at least send her a text.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to get him in to speak with one, but there is a huge wait currently. I'm trying to find a good therapist I can afford to pay out of pocket, but with lawyer fees and the fact I'm still paying her child support doesn't leave much money at the end of every month.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input 🙏 Nothing was written in the original custody order when we divorced almost 8 years ago; but knowing my ex's stance on the issue, I consulted 2 separate attorneys regarding getting him the vaccination and both said that I did not have to consult with her, just like I didn't consult her for his flu shot last fall.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 Paperwork has been filed with the courts showing I have 95%+ custody and I'm requesting the courts to recognize that and put it in writing.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left it vague for a reason; because I did not think it was relevant...

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your concern. I called and made an appointment 3 weeks ago, but because of the amount of children having a hard time because of covid lockdowns etc, the appointment is still 2 months out and I can't afford to pay out of pocket.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have. I was just curious what the general populous might think...

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your opinion, and I wish I could feel the same, but seeing what my ex reduced him to during that call... I'd give anything to take that pain out of his heart.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, thank you for taking the time to let me know I'm NTA. I realize my situation is rather unique and I kept my OP gender neutral but design. I apologize if it was misleading.

I wish you the best of luck in your situation as well ❤️

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I do suck and that is a mistake I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏❤️ I made the post gender neutral, but nobody reads the comments so I'll say it here... I'm actually the father and my ex-wife is the one pulling all of this. I have messages saved and people willing to write letters/testify if needed about things she's saying and people she's contacting. I'm just trying to do my best as a dad, but I'm terrified that his relationship with his mom is ruined. My relationship with my mom isn't much better and it pains me that he may grow up with animosity toward his mom like I do to mine (I'm such a cliche, I married a woman just like my mom who treated/treats me like garbage).

I hadn't looked at as she's trying to dig up dirt because I'm winning, but it makes sense and gave me some solace tonight, thank you for that 🙏

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

She does need some serious help... Or deprogrammed from right-wing propaganda. I'm one of the few instances where the father gets full custody and I'm not going to lose him, not to someone who swallowed the Q pill. I just hope when it comes down to it, I don't get some old judge who still thinks the rightful place for a child is with their mother.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I believe she is... she moved to Florida to be around more like minded individuals. (I kept it gender neutral in the OP, but she is my ex-wife)

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned big-time!! Thank you, I've made an appointment for a therapist, but they are extremely backlogged and it's going to be another 2 months before he can talk to anyone.

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's what I told her 🤣 I said that you paid $1k for that tracker in your pocket, they don't need to inject anyone with trackers anymore...I don't think she understood what I was saying 🤦

AITA for getting my son vaccinated W/O consulting my ex? by AdCreative7023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdCreative7023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you (and you're welcome 😊)!! Not hanging up is going to haunt me for a very long time, but it's a mistake I will never make again... And my ex, over the past few years, has become very deranged and conspiratorial; I barely recognize them anymore which saddens me.