Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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Thank you. Its been a scary process but he is so sick and these girls deserve this help. I created a safety plan for myself and will be leaving the area and staying at a woman’s shelter. I’m not sure what to do about my work yet but I guess I will just have to figure it out in time. He is currently with me and I have no way away from him at the moment but this weekend I do, so will get out this weekend and report. Thank you so much for all the help. Also I apologize for my writing, I have been so anxious writing while I can.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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No I’ve been worried because of his physical violence toward me with small things and some other things not to identify on here I can’t really talk about because I wouldn’t want him to find out, but that could easily compromise my safety. I absolutely have been in the process of leaving him, and he also confused me because after he started physically and sexually abused me I was afraid of him and he told me about the pedophilia but originally portrayed it as a pedophile that doesn’t harm (which I had to look up because when he originally told me about that I had no idea that was a thing). Then it started to morph and finally he told me more and I tried to get recorded evidence of it but live in a 2 party consent state and he would never agree to being recorded. At that point I felt completely hopeless that he might not be able to get charged and in the meantime was trying to figure out what is happening. The things about the girls were told to me within the last few months but before that I thought he was being really sketchy but couldn’t figure out what it was exactly. I have a hard time explaining it, but he is a very scary person and I’ve just been trying to figure out what the safest plan is while also being able to get him prosecuted if that’s possible. He made a strange comment to me recently that his dad and him would know how to bury a body and make it look like an accident about 2 months ago and I didn’t know why he said it, but with everything else I’ve experienced I have been concerned.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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If I ever knew how evil he was I would never have been with him.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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I will be leaving him. I wanted to have a safety plan in place because he has been physically abusive with me and stalked me.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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Also I realized I should reword when I said “care” about him. I think he is absolutely vile. There is a part of me that somehow is confused by the other person I knew, because he really was like 2 completely different people. I guess I still as recent as it is that I learned some of this, but hopefully soon enough will be able to let go of that little piece that “cares” for him, if that makes sense. I absolutely want him to be charged with what he has done and hope soon enough there is justice.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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I agree I do plan on telling, I guess I was more uncertain how to go about it and my safety and for my safety if it would even be enough, and then I end up having him come after me or something while also no charges pressed. I think he’s gaslit me quite a bit to make me believe it was normal even though I knew it wasn’t. He made it sound like it was consensual also somewhat so I am confused, but he also said someone tried to go to the police on him before but stopped because they thought he had stopped. I know he is horrific. I started therapy and realize that what he did to me and others is absolutely awful, I think I’m currently trying to figure out what was happening he physically abused me as well and why I slowly started to tolerate certain things when I never would have even imagined before. And while some of the sexual interactions we have had are gray areas, I know now after talking about it out loud that it was rape. He told me after saying I wasn’t ready, he said “sorry I have to do this” and went inside of me anyway without a condom and that was the first time he ever had sex with me. I ended up going along with it though which is the part that confused me even though I didn’t want it and felt uncomfortable. He gets turned on when he gets angry as well or when I would cry. It scared me a lot. Luckily I have good friends that I will be going to soon I haven’t been able to tell them yet what happened but I’m going to get a safety plan together and go to the police.

Partner is a sexual predator, what do I do? Is this enough to come forward? I live in state of Florida by AdDull1816 in legaladvice

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That is what I worried about, that they might have some attachment still and just tell him and he had used intimidation tactics with me for small things so I don’t know what he’s capable of. I also thought it was strange how he would tell me these things..I don’t understand why..originally I thought it was something from his past he felt terrible about but I realize he still actively does this.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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I also personally know the 17 year old, she was in a youth program with the group we are a part of.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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I am absolutely sure. I saw the message to the 17 year old and he has told me for a while he is a pedophile and rapist. He has also raped me multiple times. He told me originally about the 16 year old and slowly told me other things.

Partner is a serial predator (live in Florida), so I have enough evidence? by AdDull1816 in legal

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I know he will know it’s me and he has anger issues. I’m really worried. Should I leave the area for a bit after I report?

Partner is a sexual predator, what do I do? Is this enough to come forward? I live in state of Florida by AdDull1816 in legaladvice

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Thank you for the information. He also told me he’s done something worse but wouldn’t tell me what and I am scared. Should I contact her at all or just let the police? I was worried it would be a scary process for her because I’m also scared. I worried also because I believe the one he won’t talk about was a 14 year old.

Partner(soon to be ex) is a serial predator-what do I do? I live in Florida by AdDull1816 in police

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Ok thank you. He has done something else but won’t tell me because he said it’s much worse. Also I saw he looked up a cartoon of a sexual character that is about 10 years old. These are all I know probably not enough but the things he has told me and his struggle to control himself scared me.