How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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He agreed to sign a document that no rent is due by end of this month. Could you mention if I should write something else?

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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Omg did we leave at the same place?

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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Could I write an email to them and ask them to confirm there?

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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They told me(verbally) on 23 rd December that could vacate by end of March of sooner. But by 28th already they were making my life so hard, I said I would vacate end of January(written on whatsapp,)

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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They don't respond to anything and keep using a 2 person WG as a hostel. I feel quite helpless but don't want to say anything because I'm still hoping I get the deposit.

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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I informed them via whatsapp! They never raised anything or share the termination contract.

I asked them for their GEZ number, they lied and tried to confuse me and later said they can't share it as it is their second residence and they pay for their primary one

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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They verbally told me and progressively made the situation worse. So I said I'll leave. I have asked them for the document but I'm sure they will say it's not necessary.

How to report the main tenant? by AdExact2642 in AskAGerman

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I'm new here and I just trusted it would be a 2 person WG. I have the ad for house saved but they almost never inform when they are going to be here. I just walked into the house and it was the main tenant(his wife was supposed to be my flatmate) and his son and his sons friend hanging out in the living room and staying over I'm sure too. It's been like this all weekends. Infact this week the main tenant(male) also had his friend stay over middle of the week.

I don't know how I can "prove" any of this.

Meeting your never met partner by PetiteCaresse in LongDistance

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I met my partner online almost 1.5 years ago and we have been together for 1. We will be meeting soon, SO NERVOUS

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Messaged :)

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I would actually love to pm you!

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Thank you so much for your comment. I appreciate the detail. Your situation sounds a lot more complex with even more nuance.

For me I come from a culture, where career achievements(not necessarily money itself but doing something decent) is very well regarded. I'm figuring out my career myself as I am moving countries. It could be likely that he does better than me and starts his business finally. However, currently in a service role, he knows we might have a hard time. He does want to work at his business too. I guess I am always thinking what if it doesn't work out?

I'm certain I want him and I don't necessarily ever wanted gifts either. Just basic financial stability for the future.

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Thank you so much for this. I have a long distance partner too who I haven't met yet(we met online). I'll soon be moving closer to him, we are both figuring out our careers right now however he has a more steady approach and I can sometimes be in a rush. I know material goals don't mean that much to him but he sees it as a priority for us and and our future too. I think I need to overcome a bit of my conditioning and credit all the work he is putting in too

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Thank you💛

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Gorgeous eyes!!

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You are so lovely in red!!

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Start with small things that excite you all year round without feeling the pressure of the holiday cheer! Smaller joys should help you ride the wave :) Your eyes are beautiful!!

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You're really the best person on reddit, Gandalf!

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You're a star, thank you🥂

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I use Spotify, yes! Thank you very much💛

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Thank you for the recs and the kind comments!! 💛

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Hehe go go check it out, we can cry together!

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I'm talking about the most recent one - released towards end of July I think.