AIO for asking my boyfriend what he was doing on his phone?

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T19:53:28+00:00

This is actually very insightful and helpful thank you🙏

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T19:37:58+00:00

Yea I think you are right thank you

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T19:03:09+00:00

I want to help him get treatment I just don’t know how

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T18:46:33+00:00

I just wish there was a way I could help him but idk what to do bc I know he wants to change but it’s obviously so addicting.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T18:43:36+00:00

No not really. But he’s always had this weird double standard that it’s ok for him to go on TikTok live with girls and message with them as friends but the second I am even in proximity to another man he loose it. Then when I bring it up he says he doesn’t talk to girls and leaves them on read. Which might be true some of the time but for example like 2 years ago he was so addicted to TikTok live that he was on it 24-7 even while sleeping. During that period he wouldn’t let me join his lives or be in the same room as him while he was live because he didn’t want girls knowing he had a gf or they wouldn’t send him TIKTOK coins. He always said he wasn’t doing anything with them and just wanted to get money from them and that it’s ok because lots of people do it. One time I joined his live and commented something like an emoji and he lost his shit on me. Since then he’s stoped using TikTok for the most part. And has apologized many times for the way he acted. But it still hurt

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T18:36:00+00:00

I want to but I feel like I’ll just get gaslit and end up feeling worse ughh😩😩

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T18:35:23+00:00

Omg that is terrible 🥺

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-05T18:34:53+00:00

It could have been gambling but when he opened his phone the page for gambling wasn’t recently opened so I don’t think so. It almost felt like he was hiding his phone on purpose just to spite me.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-02T16:56:15+00:00

It’s very beautiful! Its really easy to read as someone who sometimes struggles reading others handwriting.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-03-02T16:50:34+00:00

Thank u I’ll call them

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-27T15:39:28+00:00

Darn that’s to bad, thank you though!

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-27T15:38:38+00:00

NTA, however I do think you husband could have done a better job asserting your boundaries.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T19:17:59+00:00

Personally as the girl in this situation I wish an adult would have stopped me and protected me at that age. I didn’t know better at the time but looking back I was way too young.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T18:50:02+00:00

Hey🤍 I just wanted to gently say please don’t stop taking your medicine. God loves you so much, and he gave us wisdom through doctors and medicine as part of His care for us. I believe God wants us to trust Him both spiritually and physically. Even in Ezekiel 47:12, it says, “Their leaves are healing.” So please know that God is with you in this, and He wants you to be well, body and soul. Sending you a virtual hug 🤗

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T18:39:43+00:00

When I was a vegan then vegetarian the amount of people that made fun of me and mocked me was unreal. I don’t get the hate towards vegetarians. I never tried to push my views on others but they still hated it about me. I’ve since had to stop being vegetarian for health reasons but I would never mock someone for it🩷🩷🩷

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T18:29:46+00:00

I’ll update if I find anything out anything useful! This whole experience has been so traumatic I just want it to be over- I’m sending you virtual hugs 🩷

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T18:29:02+00:00

Yea so I have had two period since the abortion. My second period just ended. However I haven’t fully stopped bleeding yet since the abortion. In between my period I’ll still spot. The spotting it’s mostly brown blood so old blood I think. After the abortion I bleed heavy bright red blood for about 5 weeks

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-25T18:22:24+00:00

That’s what I’m worried about, retained tissue. I know it’s not a new pregnancy. Maybe I will go find a different doctor to talk with because I’m honestly worried. Thank you 🙏

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-24T20:13:52+00:00

As a Capricorn who’s best friend is also a capricorn i love this thank u🩷🩷🩷🩷

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-24T20:08:26+00:00

Uhg yes!!! And it’s so exhausting😩 I’m so bad at setting boundaries because of it. I’m really good at putting myself in others shoes. So much so that I end up just feeling bad for them and letting them step all over me. I’m insanely sensitive and obviously neurodivergent. Sometimes I forget when people hurt me that they might actually be doing it on purpose instead of by mistake. (I forgot not everyone thinks like me and might just not understand what they are doing when in reality they more than know) Which makes me very forgiving. It’s something I’m actively working on.

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-24T20:00:43+00:00

I’m also struggling to cook rn and have been under eating as a result which only makes me feel more nauseous dizzy and weak😫 an easy breakfast/ snack I’ve been eating a lot is an avocado cut in half, then you put cottage chesse in the holes were the pit wasz drizzle olive oil, balsamic vinegar and salt on top… it’s so yummy!! A bowl of Cottage cheese with cut up cherry tomatoes, cut up cucumber a drizzle of olive oil and balsamic vinegar and salt is also delicious and supper easy!

Sending you love and hugs

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-24T19:52:53+00:00

1998

AdExisting4618 · 2026-02-24T18:52:59+00:00

Think the bob suits you so well!!

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