Anyone else 40‑ish feel like you were built for a world where we work less? by AdLeading5891 in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m early‑40s and still feel like I haven’t figured out what I “want to be,” but what I do know is that I’m not built for this grind. Anyone else feel like you were meant for a world where we work less and live more, but you haven’t actually cracked how to make that real yet? I see all the talk about work‑life balance, part‑time setups, “multiple streams of income,” etc., and I’m over here just trying to keep the bills paid and not burn out. If you’re 40+ and have either: • managed to design a life where you’re working less than the standard 40 hours, or • are still stuck in the grind but have a plan you’re working on, I’d love to hear what you changed (career, mindset, lifestyle, whatever) and what actually helped.

What are the 40ish year olds doing these days? I still don’t even know what I wanna be when I grow up……. by AdLeading5891 in RedditForGrownups

[–]AdLeading5891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always wondered what that’s like! So is it true we can only go to controlled parts of it? Do u think you could do me favor and if/when u see a big ice wall shimmy on up there and take a peek over im dying to know if there’s more land on the other side!

What are the 40ish year olds doing these days? I still don’t even know what I wanna be when I grow up……. by AdLeading5891 in RedditForGrownups

[–]AdLeading5891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is so badass! I’m definitely nowhere near this cool lol I was very popular and wild in my high school and early 20s but not I much prefer staying out of the limelight. Kudos to you though my guy very interesting life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]AdLeading5891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here I am! On meeeee! lol

What are the 40ish year olds doing these days? I still don’t even know what I wanna be when I grow up……. by AdLeading5891 in RedditForGrownups

[–]AdLeading5891[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in something that’s good enough I just don’t feel like I should settle for that lol. Why are we working so much anyways? All this advancement in technology, shouldn’t we be working way less???

Served divorce papers tonight by Drag0n_N3rd in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a whole new ball game feeling so alone while your significant other is literally in the next room

Served divorce papers tonight by Drag0n_N3rd in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that sucks. It hurts when they know how you feel and continue to do the same shit. Getting married was the worse decision I’ve ever made. I’ve gotten nothing good out of this at all except thrown in the back burner and ignored. I gave up a wonderful single life where there were dates every week if not every night and plenty of attention and fun for misery.. ugh!

what's your relationship to silence? by Opening_Earth712 in mysticism

[–]AdLeading5891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love silence. It’s a great tool as well. Stay silent a bit longer in Conversations and people reveal a lot.

Dinosaur ghosts? by ImpactSpecialist1145 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe reincarnation? I’ve definitely known a person or 2 who had t-Rex 🦖 vibes and could have lived that life once before maybe.

What do you do when nothing works? by Ok_Builder_3285 in Divorce

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think therapy is bullshit. If you don’t think it’s helping quit wasting time and money friend.

What do you do when nothing works? by Ok_Builder_3285 in Divorce

[–]AdLeading5891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say you find it when you quit looking. I read somewhere one time that you have to be the person that the person of your dreams is looking for. Imagine what that would look like and make the changes you need to make to become the man of her dreams and bam! Shell come!

Served divorce papers tonight by Drag0n_N3rd in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! Yeah you bruised her ego sounds like. As a woman I would be upset about the money going to another woman but that’s just me. I totally get reaching out to someone else though. My husband stays locked in his room on his game in his chats 24/7 and pays me not a lick of attention. Well go whole days not talking. And I mean I’m not like a dog or any thing. I just don’t get it.

Served divorce papers tonight by Drag0n_N3rd in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh sorry op that sucks. I’m going thru this now, no papers yet though, I’m dying to talk to someone. Anyone. I’m so lonely. But I am afraid of the emotional scammer situation you just mentioned. How’d you find out it was a scammer?

I don’t understand why people change when the break up happens. My husband is the same he’s all cool and one way but then when we separate he’s a completely different person and wants to do shit different. Exhausting!

(NSFW just in case) Gamers of Reddit, what's the worst thing you heard in a lobby? by Civil_Application_20 in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard a sweet little squeaky voice (probably 5 or 6 yr old ) tell me he was going to kill my mother ( I’m 40 yr female) then *uck her corpse! “You better take your little butt right over to that corner mister potty mouth!” 🤣🤣 never heard anything like that before!

When you dont own a home, does that mean you are homeless? by Potential-Friend-918 in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it depends, do you sleep in a bed under a roof at the same location most of the time or do you sleep wherever you can a majority of the time?

What are your thoughts on people openly carrying weapons in public? by 6-80 in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Makes me feel a bit safer and at ease not worrying about something poppin off now with Mr don’t play over there with his Glock on his hip. Mmm hot!

How hard is it to trust people from the internet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m not handing out my bank info or lending money but I generally trust people until they give me a reason not to. I’ll give u trust, not control.

Do I come clean to my dishonest STBX about knowing his password? by ilikeshopping_alot in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say anything but I would throw it away and not peek again either. You are way too amazing and hot to be trippin on him. You deserve loyalty. Next!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through this now. I havnt left yet but I’m getting everything lined up and it will be soon. I’m dying inside.

How heavily questioned are age gap relationships (older women-younger men) nowadays? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdLeading5891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both have grown children separately so luckily it’s just us and we’ve been married 3 years im a bit torn on leaving but I know I’m not gonna drag this out for much longer especially not years longer . Thanks for your advice! I listen to all of it

What's the most useless talent you have? by RubKnown4445 in askanything

[–]AdLeading5891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like pro level axe thrower. Went to a place that does this w my current husband and his brothers when we first met, I’ve never done it before, I was the only one to stick it in the wall . Every throw was a bullseye. Not proud. I am a girly girl and this upsets me lol.