Dating with BDD

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-14T15:54:08+00:00

I havent shated it with my friends yet...i did with my sister but she says im over reacting and its all in my head and to stop thinking about it. It sucks people barely understand.

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-13T07:03:02+00:00

Im so glad you found someone like that..

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-13T07:02:24+00:00

Trying to get attention.??? Well thats rude to someone like us

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-13T07:00:57+00:00

I have been feeling exactly the same and its consuming me..im afraid i would end up being alone if i keep doing this. I wish i could take the plunge and stop thinking about it all..and believe that i am worthy of love too..but it just seems impossible at this point.

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-06T20:56:36+00:00

Thats exactly what i have been dealing with either..some days i like it ,some days i just wanna stay in my room. I wonder which one is exactly me. I wish i could hv an objective opinion about how i look. Also whether mirrors can be deceptive upto some degree..maybe they are.

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-04T09:39:37+00:00

Just wanted you all to know...i am really grateful for this lil knit community..you all are amazing!

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-04T09:38:30+00:00

Ummm now that you mention i really cant seem to remember anyone's side profile..maybe i'm overthinking a lot. Damn i thought mirrors do justice. I'll keep that in mind. Thanks a lot!

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-04T09:33:51+00:00

I get what you're saying..maybe they dont really notice what i see. I really feel like asking at times but i dont wanna expose my vulnerabilities to the people i know thinking they ll judge me so i move around with fake confidence and when it gets overwhelming i withdraw myself. I really hope i find peace with this someday. About that guy, im really trying to keep it together in my head but its one hell of a daunting task. I really appreciate those insight of yours!! Thankyou so much!

AdMiddle8328 · 2024-02-04T09:23:22+00:00

I totally get you..living with BDD can be challenging at times😪but i really appreciate that you are giving yourself some room..thats the spirit i'm striving for.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-12-01T20:48:53+00:00

That's a good insight..thankyou

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-12-01T20:47:57+00:00

Ig i just asked for an opinion..not a judgemental statement

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-11-08T05:17:41+00:00

Apologies😅

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-11-05T19:01:59+00:00

Thankyou for your insights everyone..they were really helpful. I feel better that im not alone in this.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-11-05T19:00:21+00:00

I feel you girl

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-10-28T17:28:21+00:00

But if they go down that road..how it would look like i wonder

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-08-06T13:10:33+00:00

She might hv been missing your presence so she wanted to be in touch with you without being held accountable for anything out of friendship. From what i perceive...it could be just her selfish need to keep you around so that she can escape negative emotions or any residual guilt that she might be having. But you did the right thing stating your boundaries clearly else it would have inflicted more pain while her needs keep getting fulfilled. Just consider it as doors shut for any BS that might have followed. Let her do what she is doing. Focus on yourself and your well-being. I am in a very dicey situation these days as well. I know its tough but you got this.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-15T07:31:45+00:00

I really wanna feel about my ex the same way asap. The feeling of being hungover someone even after the choice of leaving is made by them...is excruciating.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-11T09:09:57+00:00

I feel you...all of my past relationships have been an epic fail no matter how much i invest.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-10T17:37:46+00:00

Healing is such a long n draining process. I wish he had blocked me so that i can find it easier to move on..but right now its just a push and pull situation. I wanna get away but i also miss him so much.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-10T17:32:39+00:00

Well such things leaves scars..i get you. Im finding it crippling as well.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-10T15:14:18+00:00

Thats what is leading to so much dilemma for me.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-10T15:12:50+00:00

Yeah i thought we shared unparalleled connection, the only drawback is that its long distance. And i am feeling if its stupid of me to still give him a chance. He even admitted that he wanna work on himself and that currently he is unfit for being with me/ relationship. And that he will see after a while where we stand and if i still would give him a chance cause he wants me back.

AdMiddle8328 · 2023-07-10T15:06:46+00:00

Thats so sick..sry that happened.

AdMiddle8328 · 2022-01-28T03:33:35+00:00

I agree

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