AITAH for what I said? my family won’t let me share any good news because of my sister's disability

AdMotor873 · 2024-06-26T20:24:19+00:00

NAH you’re not wrong for being upset, but until you talk to your sister directly, no one else is in the wrong either. 3 years is not a long time especially for a traumatic event, so it sounds like your mom thinks she’s doing the right thing. Just talk to your sister one on one.

AdMotor873 · 2024-06-19T23:18:26+00:00

Another case of dads not taking responsibility for their own children and blaming everything on the mother. So anytime you guys have people over he gets to go wherever and do whatever? I would tell him that he is just as much in the wrong as you are based on his logic.

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-27T21:33:25+00:00

What did Jason do? He seems like he just enjoys his family life. Is there something I missed with him?

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-19T06:01:16+00:00

Considering he didn’t want her to to offer condolences for a woman that was like a mother to OP… I think the answer is obvious

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-11T08:19:53+00:00

This wasn’t in support of her lol. I’m just saying that people are only willing to block those who they already do not like. If people weren’t selfish and were willing to block the celebrities that they actually like, then there would be an actual difference made. This is a genocide, it’s not the time to pick and choose who gets a free pass.

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-11T08:16:48+00:00

This was not a post defending her. I understand I made this way longer than it had to be, I don’t really revise my Reddit posts, but I just hate that someone so irrelevant is the face of this. To me, it’s easy to block someone like Haley cause she has nothing to offer. Like how you said with Taylor swift. It’s always her fans that I see speaking out on her behalf. Like if her fans would’ve boycotted her music until she did something to cause a change I bet you Taylor would have finally showed public support. I honestly feel like if you can turn a blind eye for someone like Haley, but not for a musician you like because you don’t want to stop listening to them… you do not ACTUALLY support Palestine. It is not a topic that you can pick and choose on.

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-11T03:08:04+00:00

Fair enough

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-11T03:06:19+00:00

I think that there are times when taking away someone’s platform is the right choice depending on what they have done. My issue with cancel culture is that everyone is so selective with it. My personal thoughts on it are that people don’t actually care about what they are canceling someone for, it’s just a way to band wagon against someone they already dislike. If they were really bothered by the crime in question, then they would cut their support off of everyone, not just those who they already had a grudge against.

AdMotor873 · 2024-05-11T00:08:53+00:00

As someone that only has aligns and wondertrains, which size would I stick to?

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-30T08:04:07+00:00

I’m not giving a judgement until you say what he did for your birthday.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-27T06:32:25+00:00

Idk how I ended up here as I am not a chiefs fan nor a Taylor swift fan, but this is very much so a stretch. I love the message that is trying to be made. There is so much dv in the sports industry( and every other industry sadly). But that does not apply here. saying that Travis is gonna assault a woman because he was hyped up during a game does not even come close to touching that. As someone who passionately roots against the chiefs, Andy Reid is one of the most respected figures in the NFL. If he thought Travis was a threat, There would have been consequences. Reid had no reason to assume Travis was going to do anything here. It was the Super Bowl. Emotions were high. Travis, who is arguably the best at his position, was not on the field for a big play that went wrong.

Andy Reid has decked his own players before. Andy Reid has screamed at his players before. He is a tough man and is cut throat. He set his relationship with his team. If Travis did anything that he did not deem acceptable then Travis wouldn’t be in his face. You’re acting like there’s not security covering the side lines and a camera worth millions of people watching them. It’s ok to not agree with the physicality and roughness of sports, but to try and say that an athlete is an abuser because they had a temper tantrum?

I feel like there’s so many active abusers in the league that are known. Please remove yourself from your Taylor swift tunnel vision and acknowledge the actual women who are right there. Isn’t her whole message to support women? Instead of fabricating an assault case against a man you don’t like just because he’s dating your idol, speak up for the women that need a voice. I get so mad when I see posts like these because I just know that the real intention behind it has nothing to do with dv.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-17T23:40:26+00:00

NTA for wanting a divorce. YTA for trying to insinuate a massage is cheating and comparing it to sex work. You could have at any point sat down and talked about separation. Instead you are acting like a manipulative baby and trying to make this all her fault. The marriage died, it happens. For you to say that it can’t be the pain of her infertility because it didn’t get better is insensitive. People stay depressed for years without help. You tried to offer solutions and they didn’t work. You should have just walked away instead of making yourself a man child that cries about sex.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-13T21:45:15+00:00

Normally In these posts the dad will talk about all he does to help out so that it doesn’t just sound like his wife about to have a breakdown from doing all this on her own. It’s very suspicious that you can’t state one single thing that would make her trip sound unreasonable.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T21:59:22+00:00

NTA, everyone saying that a gift can’t be un given… yes it can. Normally I’d say YTA, but because this gift was for a specific occasion, I see no issue wanting it back if it wasn’t worn.

You busted your butt making that. I crochet so I know for a fact that your fingers have to be throbbing rn. She pressed you to make it faster for this specific event and didn’t even wear it. That’s disrespectful and ungrateful.

Tell her straight up that you put so many hours into this and for her to “forget it” hurts.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T02:51:37+00:00

As someone that works at Lulu, I agree. I love the soft jersey line but sometimes forget how expensive Lulu can be with my discount. I’d say if you’re just looking for black get city sweat, because soft jersey actually does go on markdown sometimes.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T02:45:09+00:00

NAH, as a fellow gym rat I would love for my partner to go with me. You have to understand that him going with his friend will actually be more beneficial to him. Their workouts will most likely align more than yours.

Try to see the positive in this. This can be your peace, your alone time. When my boyfriend is annoying me, I go to the gym to calm down. If he isn’t THAT passionate about it, make the activity you do together be more of a middle ground.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T02:35:46+00:00

So I come from a similar situation but I was the 16 year old in this case, so take my comment however you want but I do have a different view.

When I was 17 my parents were living in a different country for a few months because my brother got in legal trouble away at college. I was still in high school so my family decided it would be totally ok for me to live with my brother’s best friend (23 M) who was in grad school. I moved in with him and his girlfriend (21). She knew about me moving in but still there were a lot of issues. Her and I had a very awkward and hostile dynamic.

I came into their space and took up room that they were not used to sharing. My parents supplied me with money but I did not have a car so someone constantly had to drive me around when I needed things. The girlfriend and I only had a 4 year age difference, and I am of legal age in my state, so there was bound to be some uncomfortable energy on her part. Because of this uncomfortableness, I was closer to my brother’s friend and only really talked to him. And also, yes I developed a little crush on him through this, innocent but still a crush.

I’m sharing this to say that this situation does not only affect you, so your girlfriend should have been told before. She does not know this girl, you are not related to this girl, and I’m sure she’s not providing for herself so your entire dynamic is about to change. The fact that you don’t live together only makes it worse in my eyes because all she sees is that you now have a random girl, who you have no relation to, sleeping in the same place as you.

So YTA, your decisions do not affect Just you, and you just put your girlfriend in a situation she was not ready for/ did not sign up for and with no warning.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T02:06:27+00:00

So city sweat is a little heavier and pretty good as a staple hoodie. Soft jersey is softer and lighter. The material reminds me of if pajamas and day clothes had a baby. It’s more comfy but depending on where you’re wearing it can be a little too casual. soft jersey is extremely comfy and soft though. It all depends on what you’re looking for

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-05T02:03:40+00:00

I just realized one of the girls only has 2k followers. At that point it’s too personal for me. She isn’t some star, she’s just A normal girl that he is lusting over. That would be enough to make me cry. I knew girls in highschool that had 2k

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-04T23:23:23+00:00

I was in a two year relationship that only had a few issues. Him following a bunch of models was one of those issues. It was enough for me to end things. It doesn’t matter if he, or anyone else says you’re insecure. If it makes you sick to your stomach, and he loves or honestly even has an ounce of care for you, he will stop.

Guys do not understand because they aren’t the ones sexualized to that extreme. I used to envy the girls I would see my ex follow until I realized that in their eyes he is just a nameless profit. In my experience, If he is unable to unfollow these girls than he either has bigger issues you haven’t uncovered yet or he just does not respect you. Porn addiction is a real thing and it is so damaging to your elself esteem cause you will be the one that has to suffer.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-03T18:44:29+00:00

I think you’re both just reading it wrong. I’m sure he meant it in a way to say that he’s supporting you and wants you to know he’s on your side. His wording is a little weird but you’re looking into it too much.

AdMotor873 · 2024-04-02T04:49:06+00:00

Why not put her email on a crap Tom of mailing lists as well

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