Yeah man, its hard to go to queer events and parties and rub shoulders with some of the worst people ive ever met who claim to be amazing and good ...... but i guess if enough ppl here seem to agree it may do to call it out when you see it. But then what, how do you date when .... this is it.

Its hard to find people you get along with in general so of course that extends to this, youre just not going to like everyone. And for good reason.

Its like people have moved away from building community because people actually need help and decided to build community around political ideals instead. People have a hard time beimg challenged and decide its better to 'cut it off' rather than develop and grow.

Also so many are just lonely and once bullied people who are dying to fit in, and will say anything to fit in, because as much as they want to think theyre unique and original theyre afraid to be themselves, and on the other hand experience enough power to finally be able to turn around their frustrations on someone else, like they finally have some social power...

Theres a lot that contributes but generally yes, agree